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Jul 5, 2022 17:14
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Since he’s a pay-per-meeting papa and it’s a no-intimacy date, I’ll only get 10,000 yen for transportation no matter how long I’m tied up.
I’d much rather have an intimate date and get my usual 100,000 yen.
What kind of date do you think would be easiest?
I’m thinking of going to a spa, spending an hour or two enjoying ourselves separately, then having a light meal at the facility before parting ways lol.
Do you think he’d get mad if I suggested something like that? lol
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How about dates doing things you enjoy, like going to the movies or karaoke? (*ノ>ᴗ<)テヘッ
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I feel like people would appreciate it if you were simply honest and said, “I want to have sex.”
Personally, I’d be happy if someone told me, “I can’t help myself—I need to have sex when we meet.”
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I saw online that if you don’t want to be stuck together for too long, it’s best to make an excuse like, “I have an appointment at a beauty salon after this,” or “I have some family business to take care of,” and leave early!
Or, during the date, couldn’t you act sweet and say something like, “I really want to do it…♡” to get him in the mood?
I don’t really understand how someone can say they want 10 with an adult relationship (intimate), yet find going to a super sento more convenient…
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The allowance is 10 for an adult relationship on a pay-per-meeting basis, but only 1 for dinner, right?
I understand feeling like, “I’m spending so much time on a date, and only getting 1…” But if the regular dates are genuinely fun and you’re appealing to him, this could be your chance to move to a monthly arrangement. I think men pay close attention to whether you’re enjoying your time with them even on days when the allowance isn’t generous.
If you slack off there, you might miss your chance to become closer.
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If it makes you feel depressed, you can simply choose not to go on the date.
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I think that plan sounds good.
Don’t overthink it—just do your best to enjoy yourself and make your papa (a male supporter) like you.
If you clearly act like you don’t want to be there, he may lose interest, so the best plan is one you can genuinely enjoy.
He might take a liking to you after that date and even start giving you a more generous allowance. And if you don’t enjoy it, you can always quit. Overthinking it is the worst thing you can do.
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I can’t say how that man would react.
If it were me, I wouldn’t get angry, but I probably wouldn’t see her again.
Why not ask to change it to a date with an adult relationship (intimate)?