I’m looking for a woman with Relationship Type A, but there seem to be very few of them. If I offered a satisfactory allowance to a Type B or C woman, would she be willing to meet for dinner and a few drinks?
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I imagine some people will say I should just go to a hostess club or lounge, but I’m not fond of those places. Type A women also tend to be younger, and I’m not interested in younger women. Thank you.
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> There are very few Type A women.
I just checked, and there are around 600 of them. Isn’t that more than the number of women you can actually date through other dating clubs?
I think you should reconsider whether it really makes sense to call 600 people “few.”
Besides, I doubt it would be possible to date all 600 of them. New women join every month, so even if you went on one date every day for two years, I feel like there would still be Type A women registered with Universe whom you hadn’t dated yet.
Also, if you sent offers every day, even Type A women would start receiving offers. That would make it possible for women who previously would have been rejected at the interview stage to get registered, so the number of Type A women would continue to increase.
I think you should try making offers so you can date a new woman every day from now on.
If you’re saying there simply aren’t that many women because you live outside a major city, maybe you should move to Tokyo.
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I’m a Type B member in my late twenties, and I think dinner dates only are perfectly fine.
If you’re making an offer to someone who’s Type B or C, it might be a good idea to let them know in advance that you’d like to continue with dinner-only dates going forward.
If I had to say, more important than the amount of money is whether you genuinely enjoy the time you spend together—that’s probably the key to maintaining the arrangement.
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I’m very sorry, but I’d like to retract what I said in my previous answer, so I’ve edited part of the content.
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I’ve mentioned this here a few times, but I’m a Type B and I do have someone I meet for dinner only (no intimacy).
That’s what the man wanted, so that’s how our arrangement developed. He also gives me an allowance. I think his way of thinking is similar to yours.
My papa (a male supporter) is young, handsome, and kind, so I was surprised that someone so exceptional exists. Regardless of the type, I feel that men who are willing to provide an allowance for dinner only (no intimacy) are often very much appreciated.
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You’d probably get tons of responses if you posted on an app or dating site—like Happy Mail—or on a message board.
You’d likely get responses from Twitter too.
Those terms probably aren’t a good fit for a dating club.
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I have two girls who only go on dinner dates with me despite being C-types. I also have one B-type.
One of them was strangely close to falling seriously for me from our very first date. Even though she was a C-type, she said she preferred dinner dates. During our first date, she kept sneaking glances at me in profile, and since she was a C-type, I invited her out of courtesy—but she looked like she was about to cry and told me, “I’d like to have a serious relationship with you.” We’ve been doing dinner dates ever since.
She’s from a wealthy family and earns good money herself. Every time, she insists she doesn’t need an allowance, and it turns into a whole back-and-forth. I give it to her anyway, out of principle.
The other one is someone who got a boyfriend and ended her adult relationship, but we’ve continued going on dinner dates. She was a former ace who got back together with me. A little while after we reunited, she got a boyfriend, and I realized it was a serious relationship, so I told her we should end things. We ended the adult relationship again, and now we only go on dinner dates.
The B-type girl I only go on dinner dates with is the one I used to call my next ace. She became exhausted from working at a black company and started showing signs of panic disorder, so she was no longer in a position to do papa-katsu. Now she calls me to have dinner when she’s feeling stable. She apparently doesn’t want to part ways.
All three of them have quit Universe.
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That’s certainly possible.
It’s not just about the amount of the allowance—it also depends on you as the questioner.
Will she feel that spending time with you is a waste, or will it help her relieve stress?
More importantly, can you actually offer her enough in return?
Women are busy too, so their time is more valuable than the allowance itself, and they’re dealing with all kinds of stress.
If you can meet on terms that work for her—during a brief opening in her busy schedule, or at short notice when she wants someone to listen to her complaints or celebrate something with her—you can offer her time she otherwise couldn’t use, a nice meal, and a chance to unwind, while also receiving an allowance. You might even become someone truly valuable and important to her.
Surprisingly, if you ask, “How about now?” or “Tomorrow?” and she happens to be free, she may be happy to come see you—even without an adult relationship. She may also start reaching out to you more casually herself.
There are plenty of things you can do besides giving money. In fact, actions that don’t involve money are harder for others to imitate, and they can be more surprising and show that you’re genuinely thoughtful, so I think they’ll be appreciated much more.
That was just a lousy paper airplane from a bored, broke guy.
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If you provide the allowance in the way Rin suggested, I don’t think there would be any problem at all.
Even without offering that much, I currently have a dinner-only (no intimacy) arrangement with someone for 30,000 yen per meeting. Given my own views and circumstances, I don’t think I’ll pursue an adult relationship (intimate).
Judging from your question, it sounds like you may be misunderstanding a few things. Also, even if it’s dinner only, the arrangement may not continue if you lack basic grooming or are simply too boring to talk to.
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It depends on the person.
I think that’s something you should discuss with the person in question.
Reading Early’s answer reminded me of something, so I’ll add this: come to think of it, the woman I was seeing once turned down a papa (a male supporter) who offered the same allowance I did for dinner and drinks because she found him a hassle to deal with.
That doesn’t mean being with me was amazing—it was probably just that dates with that dinner-only papa were particularly exhausting.
Whether to start or continue seeing someone is based on an overall assessment by both people, and those assessments are entirely subjective. So in the end, you really can’t say much based on someone’s dating style alone.
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I think she’d be happy if you offered an allowance comparable to an adult relationship for dinner only (no intimacy), but… what exactly are you worried about?
Are you not good at conversation, unsure about choosing a restaurant, or lacking in cleanliness and grooming?! Now I’m curious.
I don’t know exactly how young you are, but I’m sure someone of any age would appreciate it. Why not give it a try?
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