Tips Jul 4, 2022 16:32

I’m registered in a regional area, but I’ll be traveling to the Kanto region for work soon and would like to arrange a meeting with someone from another area for the first time. Would it be considered rude to meet her directly at my hotel without dinner first, even if she’s a D-class girl?

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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s way more fun once you’ve gotten to know each other better. lol
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
That’s rude. Trying to have sex as soon as you meet shows that you see women as nothing more than sex workers.
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Type D doesn’t stand for “delivery health” (a type of Japanese escort service). I wouldn’t want to meet for the first time in a hotel room right off the bat, either.
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Even if the hotel is neat and clean, I think it’s perfectly fine to meet in the lobby and have a meal at one of the hotel’s restaurants—as long as it’s a reasonably upscale city hotel, not a business hotel. Of course, going straight to a room is out of the question. Universe won’t arrange that for you. Marika Wait, what?? No dinner??? I reread the question and was honestly shocked all over again.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Before we even get to the issue of rudeness, club rules prohibit going straight to a hotel. Your first date should be dinner. That gives both of you time to get comfortable with each other, and I think an adult relationship after dinner can become more intimate as a result. If you want to go straight to a hotel in the first place, use a call girl service or some other adult entertainment. I’m honestly surprised that there are still men who misunderstand this. Maybe as people get older, their memories rewrite the explanation they received when they joined in whatever way is most convenient for them?
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Are you saying you’re on a business trip and don’t have much time, but you still want to get intimate? If you’re looking for an adult relationship (intimate) right away, I’d recommend using an establishment that offers that rather than making an offer here. (Though I’m sure the staff will be mad at me for saying that, haha.) If you really don’t want to use an establishment, you could offer a letter date to a woman who catches your eye and explain your terms, such as, “I’m looking for a woman who can have an adult relationship (intimate) on the same day.” Trying to negotiate after inviting her to your room on a regular date would probably scare off any woman with common sense. And if she finds you creepy in person, she’ll probably make up an excuse like, “I’m on my period,” and leave.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Universe Club arranges dates over tea or a meal. If you’re not even going to have tea or eat, I’d say you’re using the service for something other than its intended purpose. It’s not a question of whether that’s rude. Why not at least have tea? I’m honestly baffled by how impatient and dick-brained you are.
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I don’t think it leaves a very good impression. Women can’t even watch a video to get a sense of what kind of person he is, so they’d probably be pretty confused.
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