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Jul 3, 2022 18:40
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Also, I have a question about Universe Lounge.
Regarding the lounge’s class system:
“It is generally understood that female members registering with Universe Lounge are equivalent to Gold class or higher within Universe Club.
Please consider this classification to be based on appearance.”
So, in other words, does that mean appearance is prioritized in the same way as Universe Club’s class system?
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think you necessarily have to feel grateful, but it’s important to treat people with respect and spend time with someone you genuinely like. I think that makes this activity more enjoyable.
Looks do matter to some extent, but beyond that, women who have a good attitude and know how to handle themselves—women the club staff can confidently introduce—are the ones who get chosen.
Other
I think it’s arrogant to assume that people should be grateful.
There will always be a certain number of people lacking the decency to post things here like “you fucking old man” or “drop dead.” I’d say they make up about 5% of the total.
Other
Since it’s a dating club, I feel that even if the relationship is somewhat superficial, it should ideally be mutually appreciated rather than one-sided. Otherwise, I imagine it would be difficult to continue seeing each other.
I know there’s no point using such nasty language here, but there do seem to be plenty of creepy guys and old bastards around, so sometimes I figure it can’t be helped.
Looking at the class rankings at Universe Club, appearance is obviously a major factor, but I assume other aspects are taken into consideration to some extent as well.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think gratitude goes only one way.
Women are grateful to receive an allowance, and men are grateful to have the company of beautiful women.
In short, it goes both ways.
By the way, it says this is different from Universe’s class system, right?
At Universe, factors other than looks are taken into account, so someone with a Gold-level appearance may still be classified as Standard or Platinum.
But with the lounge, they’re saying they only register women whose looks are Gold level or above.
That said, I got the impression that the club paid close attention to personality, so personally, I think I’ll continue using the club rather than the lounge.
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Other
People who post hurtful things usually have issues of their own. I’ve also received rude comments and been hurt by things men from the club have said or done. There have even been times when I couldn’t process it on my own and reached out to the staff for advice. They listened so compassionately, and I was truly grateful.
I think a person’s true nature comes out when they’re having a hard time or facing difficulties. Before resorting to hurtful language, it’s important to sort out what actually hurt you and how you feel inside. Since there are staff members you can talk to, I think it’s best to trust them and seek their advice.
Of course, there are plenty of wonderful men too, and I’m very grateful to my papa (a male supporter).
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m the one who should be grateful. All PJs are goddesses to me. I’m truly, truly, truly grateful.
Money can always be earned, so it’s no big deal. More than anything, I’m sincerely grateful that you’re willing to entrust me with your young bodies.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think Universe’s class system is quite as looks-focused as people make it out to be. Of course, it also depends on the staff member who assigns the class.
I initially thought, “Please take this as an assessment based on appearance” reflected the lounge representative’s personal view. But that representative wasn’t particularly focused on looks either, so I suspect they phrased it that way to avoid stirring up debate.
That said, I don’t think gratitude is necessarily expected. I’m happy when someone’s feelings toward me lean positive rather than neutral, and I only date people who make me feel that they’re reasonably positive toward me.