For those who tell their papa (a male supporter) that they have a boyfriend, how much do you talk about him?

When I make my initial offer, I tell them my terms and say: “You’re welcome to have a boyfriend or other papas—I’ll support you. If your boyfriend or another papa has work, please prioritize their schedule.” Some women open up and tell me all kinds of things after I say that, while others don’t talk much. With the women who do open up, I can listen to their concerns and give advice, which I find interesting. I even help them think about how to win a man’s heart. I’ve seen two women from my monthly arrangements get married. It feels good to see women I genuinely like, as people, find happiness. I do feel a little lonely when a woman I had great sex with moves on, but it also means I’m free to look for new encounters, so I enjoy that in its own way.

Generally, I don’t think it’s a good idea to bring it up! Unless he’s seeing multiple people and has other sugar babies, and he brings up those women himself, I wouldn’t recommend mentioning your boyfriend when you don’t even know how he feels about that—or when you’re not that close yet. Unless, of course, your papa (a male supporter) has a thing for being cuckolded, haha.

It depends on the papa’s personality, but generally, it’s better not to say anything, so I don’t.

Personally, I’m fine with either. Generally speaking, though, I think it’s better to read the other person and decide how to address them.

If you’re talking about your boyfriend or a generous papa, you’ll probably want to bring it up, so it’s best to judge based on how many papas you have. If you only have one or two papas, you probably won’t mix up who you told what to and how much. Of course, this assumes that you both feel you need each other and that the sex is satisfying. And don’t forget to mention what your boyfriend or generous papa has done for you, along with a few complaints and things you’d like advice on, so you can really bask in that sense of superiority.

It’s fine to talk about your boyfriend while we’re being intimate. Actually, I’d prefer it. We might even be fans of the same adult film actress, haha. ↑ Even as a joke, that’s not funny—it’s rude. If you’re going to engage with me, please use a little more humor.

Men are all different. Some don’t like the idea of you having a boyfriend, while others don’t want to hear about him even if you do. On the other hand, some people are interested in hearing all kinds of stories. So it’s best to only answer if he asks, and even then, feel him out to see what kind of person he is before sharing too much. And of course, you should avoid bringing up your boyfriend yourself when he hasn’t asked.

It probably varies from person to person. Personally, I can usually tell when there’s someone else, so I’d rather you not hide it and just tell me how things naturally came about.

Some people are fine with it—or even want to hear about it. Others don’t mind if it comes up, while some would rather not know. There are also people who say it’s a turnoff and break up after finding out. It really varies. I don’t have a boyfriend, but even if I did, I probably wouldn’t tell him. There are also people who are okay with having a boyfriend but don’t want to hear about other papas (male supporters). Marika

If your papa (a male supporter) talks about his experiences with other papa-katsu women in painstaking detail, and you can enjoy listening or simply brush it off with a “Oh, I see!”, then I don’t see a problem. But if your attitude is, “I don’t want to hear about that, but you’d better listen to me talk about my boyfriend with a smile,” you might want to rethink things. It seems no different from a papa who tends to mistakenly believe that paying an allowance gives him the right to do anything, or a papa-katsu woman who acts a little arrogant, thinking, “You want to be with me badly enough to pay an allowance, right?” Akari

As Make-Otoko-san also mentioned, judging from the questions people post, it’s generally better not to talk about either your boyfriend or your other papas. Rather than bringing it up, keeping quiet will probably increase the chances of being treated better by that man. In my case, girls who have boyfriends talk about them (mostly to complain), and girls who have other papas talk about those papas too (again, nothing but complaints). But I see those as separate matters, so I don’t think I change how I treat them because of it. That said, I get the feeling that I’m still fairly high on the priority list of the girls I’m seeing. So, regardless of what the reality is—if they can deceive me perfectly, I’m totally fine with it being an act—if I ever felt I was being treated far too casually, I’d end things with them. (That hasn’t happened so far.) Also, deep down, I may simply prefer popular girls over girls who have never been popular.

In my case, it varies from girl to girl. For example, my ace girl broke up with her boyfriend and came to me. I’m not her boyfriend, and she isn’t my girlfriend, but she chose to leave him and become exclusive with me. I was so happy about it at the time that I fell completely into her trap, and I still give her the most financial support. So I’d feel lonely if my ace got a boyfriend. That said, we’re looking for a marriage partner for her together. It’s kind of a strange relationship. Of all the women I’ve met, she’s the most popular ordinary girl by far. You don’t come across someone that popular very often. I think any man would fall for her after spending just an hour with her. She’s a genius when it comes to being cute. I’m currently trying to win over a lounge hostess, but all she talks about is her boyfriend. Mostly, I just listen to her complaints. He’s incredibly handsome, but despite working for a top-tier company, he’s extremely cheap. Apparently he’s also terrible in bed, so aside from his looks, he has no redeeming qualities. I listen to her complain about him endlessly. If you’re good at listening to complaints, she’ll eventually fall for you, so that’s what I’m doing. There’s also a girl I became close with after we had a great time talking about other papas. She recently got a new papa, and even though he’s quite old, he’s apparently very energetic at night. She cheerfully gives me detailed reports about what he did to her, how he did this and that, how he increased her allowance, and so on. I enjoy listening to her. She’s incredibly cute, and I absolutely adore her. She’s also the girl I see most often at the moment. However, I’m a bit unusual, so I don’t mind at all when girls talk to me about their boyfriends or other papas. Generally speaking, though, I think it’s wiser not to talk about boyfriends. Most papas get emotionally invested in their papa-katsu girls and fall into the rabbit hole, which makes it possible to draw a lot of money out of them. In my case, the ace I give by far the most allowance to doesn’t have a boyfriend. The girl I’m most fond of after her doesn’t have one either. And the lounge hostess I’m currently trying to win over has started saying things like, “Maybe I should break up with my boyfriend and switch to Mr. Loser,” whether she’s joking or serious. I have to admit, I find that quite pleasant. Writing all this has made me realize that maybe I feel a little lonely when a girl I’m interested in has a boyfriend, but I don’t mind if a girl I’m not interested in has one—or even another papa. The girl I’ve been seeing most often lately is certainly extremely cute, but I’m not actually that interested in her… I’m really sorry. To be honest, I’d love to become completely obsessed with one particular girl. I even keep a somewhat detached eye on my ace, so someone please pull me into the rabbit hole… The person I’m most hopeful about right now is a sexy actress. She has a lot of depth as a person, and talking with her is fun. She’s a famous actress with enough experience to be considered a veteran, but she can view herself objectively, and I have a great deal of respect for her as a person. A columnist named Flag Maker wrote an article about how wonderful sexy actresses are, and that got me interested. And yes, sexy actresses really are wonderful. Maybe we’re talking about the same sexy actress, haha.