About the other person’s appearance.

I saw another woman’s profile that said: “Please only make an offer if your body fat percentage is below XX%.” Maybe including body-fat or BMI requirements in your profile would at least serve as a bit of a deterrent?

My BMI is under 21, and no one has ever called me chubby. Even so, I would avoid approaching a woman whose profile says, “I’m not comfortable with fuller-figured people.” As Rin says, it makes me wonder whether she has a lot of other picky requirements too. It wouldn’t be enjoyable having dinner while wondering whether everything else is okay aside from body type. Why would I pay an allowance just to spend an unpleasant time together? I believe both people should be considerate of each other and make an effort to enjoy at least the meal. As for seeing each other afterward, you can simply turn her down gracefully. Women often say, “Men should negotiate gracefully,” right? This is the same thing.

That’s a good question. > I told the staff that I’d like to know a little more about his profile, but they said, “This is all the profile information we’re able to provide.” There may be various reasons for that, but as things stand, I suppose your only option is to write in your own profile, “I’m not comfortable with fuller-figured men,” and, as Early-san suggested, go with the mindset of, “I’ll just accept the transportation fee and say goodbye.” I’m sure you’re an attractive woman. Both the club and the men are doing their best because they want to meet you, and want you to meet them. Please try to understand that. Keep an open mind, meet him, and if you feel it’s not going to work, all you can do is say, “I’m sorry!”

In fact, in most cases, the staff don’t know whether a man is on the heavier side or not. They can usually tell to some extent if they’ve met him personally, but most of the time, they haven’t. So: > Is writing “I’m not comfortable with heavier men” in my profile the only option? I think that would be your best bet. However, even if you write that you’re not comfortable with heavier people in the comments, some men may believe that they themselves aren’t that heavy. With that in mind, I think it might be better to give a more specific standard, such as a height-to-weight range. In the first place, if you prefer slim men, most men tend to become less slim as they get older. Even if they don’t actually gain weight, many will develop a more solid build, so if you can only be with slim men, it may be quite difficult. I don’t know how many men you’ve met so far, but you’ve probably gotten a general idea of the proportions of different body types just from that. If even men with an average build are not an option, it may be quite challenging.

I actually prefer women with fuller figures, so I guess everyone has different tastes〜 ∑(๑ºдº๑)!! If you absolutely don’t want that, it seems like the only option is to mention it upfront. Or maybe check the man’s profile when you receive an offer…

I think it would be best to state it clearly in the comments and exclude overweight people. People who maintain their figure may still consider someone overweight even if their weight is just their height minus 105, so it could actually reduce the number of offers from slimmer people. People with protruding stomachs may not be conscious of it themselves. If that’s the case, they might not care even if you write it—and it could end up having the opposite effect. If you’re going to write something, maybe say, “Please don’t make an offer unless you weigh under ___ kg.” For example, 62, 65, or 60 kg… and maybe specify a height of 170 cm or taller.

They say that in some parts of the world, having belly fat is considered a symbol of wealth, while being skinny is associated with poverty (Monaco, apparently). Thanks to a wonderful papa (a male supporter) I recently met here, I feel like my sense of beauty—and my standards—have been raised, too. He says he “doesn’t do anything,” but I’m sure he must be quietly putting in some effort behind the scenes. It’s inspired me to shape up as well. I don’t know what the questioner’s body type is, but for someone you had to reluctantly turn down despite the generous (well-paying) terms, you could say something like, “I’ve been wanting to exercise! I want to join a gym—why don’t you join too, papa?” and help him work toward losing weight. I’m sure he’d be happy♪

BMI 25 to under 30: add 1 to the allowance BMI 30 to under 35: add 2 to the allowance BMI 35 to under 40: add 3 to the allowance BMI 40 or higher: add 4 to the allowance Questioner, how about this? Let’s say your desired allowance is 6. If a fat papa with a BMI of 36 shows up, you’d get 6 plus 3, for a total of 9. https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/13530 My answer to this question is getting a little buzz, but it really reflects what women actually think. Women who want to be intimate with a potbellied older man or elderly man are incredibly rare. And since a potbellied papa is hardly likely to go for hair removal, he’ll be “potbellied and hairy” on top of that. On the other hand, men who like women with a little extra around the middle are by no means rare. Most of the women in my monthly arrangements aren’t nearly as toned as I am, and there’s even a “man of men” among the respondents who openly declares, “Why would I ever make an offer to a skinny woman?” lol First, what I want to say to Universe Club is that during men’s interviews, they should tell them, “Universe Club recommends keeping a full-length mirror at home.” And I’d like them to give every man who passes a box of floss and interdental brushes. Mouthwash won’t do. It doesn’t get rid of the smell. Universe should partner with RIZAP too. Just as Universe discounts are available at Yokohama Preventive Medicine for STI testing, it would be great if the same kind of discount applied at RIZAP. Regina, Alicia, Rize, Shonan Beauty, and these days Jibun Clinic are all doing well, so I’d also like Universe discounts to be available for medical hair removal. And they should partner with bad-breath clinics too. There must be tons of papas with filthy nails, so they should partner with somewhere for nail care as well. It’s all for the women. Strangely enough, men with no sense of cleanliness—the moment they have a protruding belly, their sense of cleanliness is already zero—also tend to offer lower allowances. Don’t the papas of the world know that PJ girls talk among themselves about papas with breath that smells like a corpse, saying, “Today I got Frankenstein-ed again (；∀；)”? Please, for the love of God, don’t smoke and drink coffee together. No coffee before or during a date. Drink tea on date days. Fat people smell just by being alive. That distinctive odor comes from fat burning. I know because I work out. When I push myself hard enough during a workout, my whole body gives off a terrible smell, because my fat is burning. It really stinks. Fat people burn fat even when they’re just sleeping, so they smell even in bed. Even if it was for SEO, wow, I really went off lol. But this is for women too. If you still have no intention of losing weight, use the chart at the beginning and increase the allowance accordingly. Or write something like, “My BMI is 36,” when making an offer to a woman.

Since women aren’t the ones choosing, I think it would be good to write a brief note about it yourself. But not everyone will read it, so you probably won’t know until you meet. Also, since it’s unclear how much you’re willing to accept, being specific would probably make it easier to get your point across. That said, if you get too detailed, they may find it troublesome and you could end up receiving fewer offers. On the first day, women probably don’t have the right to choose, so if you meet him and feel it won’t work, you may have no choice but to turn him down.

Quite a few women list “people with a fuller build” as a type they’re not comfortable with in the comments staff write for their profiles, so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with putting it in your profile. That said, I do get the feeling that men like that are often unlikely to see themselves as “full-figured,” and are also quite likely not to read profiles at all. Much like people with severe body odor or no sense of personal cleanliness often don’t do anything about it, they may simply be unaware of the issue. In any case, it’s their fault if they don’t read your profile. So I’d just leave it written there, meet them if they send an offer, collect the transportation fee, and then say goodbye.

People have different interpretations of what “full-figured” means, so writing “I’m not comfortable with full-figured women” probably won’t be very effective. As before, I think the only option is for you to meet them first and decide for yourself.