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Jul 1, 2022 14:58
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You can probably find the answer the questioner was looking for by looking at how many likes each respondent’s comment received.
Depending on the girl’s situation that day, I sometimes give her the same allowance whether we have an adult relationship (intimate) or just dinner. But if I told her every time, “You can choose whichever you prefer—an adult relationship or dinner only,” then, as Make-Otoko said, there may be days when she chooses the adult relationship simply so she won’t be cut off, even if what she really wants is dinner only.
Everyone thinks differently, and there may be a few exceptions, but I try not to misunderstand the situation.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Wanting to have sex and wanting to enjoy it aren’t what determine someone’s type.
The difference is that type D will do it with anyone as long as the allowance terms are right, whereas type B isn’t willing to do it with just anyone, even if the allowance is generous.
Conversely, there are women in every category—B, C, and D—who privately feel, “I don’t want to have sex with an older guy; there’s no way I’d enjoy it.”
Other
I assume you’re going with D because you’re not getting any offers at B or C.
There really aren’t women who want to have H with complete strangers. You’ve got the wrong idea.
To put it bluntly, they want the money.
Questioner, if you can’t even understand that, you’ve watched too much porn. Why don’t you quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
All I can do is sigh…
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re active here because you want money, right?
When it comes to intimacy, everyone’s different—some like it, some don’t, some can tolerate it, and some enjoy it. There are all kinds of people, aren’t there?
👨 Male
Universe member
When it comes to money or H, it’s the money, right?
The money is settled.
What comes next is the interesting part:
1. Leave
2. Want to feel good
So, which is it?
If she says,
“Thank you very much,”
and leaves…
You should probably quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), haha.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The more D-type it is,
> Of course it’s 100% about the money and 0% about sex.
Women can all live without sex, but I think sex exists for women’s sake. That’s its true nature…
And then:
> A man’s ecstasy reaches its peak precisely at the moment a woman reaches hers.
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Other
What are you planning to do with that information?
Once, after I agreed to an adult date with someone I’d met before, he happily said, “You really wanted to sleep with me, didn’t you?” I could only give an awkward laugh.
There’s no way I could say, “I agreed because your allowance is generous.”
That’s just as foolish a way of thinking. If all I wanted was sex and pleasure, I wouldn’t bother signing up for a dating club in the first place.
Other
The moment you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), money is a given.
Whether it can develop into something deeper than that honestly depends on the papa (a male supporter). In your case, though, it doesn’t seem likely.
Other
Isn’t it money?
With C, unless something truly extraordinary happens, a woman’s wish to have sex can be fulfilled.
Marika
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Obviously, it’s 100% about the money and 0% about sex. This isn’t a dating app—it’s a dating club.
For example, if I made an offer to a D-type woman, met her in a hotel lounge, and asked 100 D-type women:
“I’m thinking of offering an allowance of 100,000 yen. It’s 100,000 yen for dinner only, and 100,000 yen for an adult relationship (intimate) as well. After this, would you rather go out for dinner or go to a room?”
All 100 of them would answer, “Dinner, please.”
If it were a young, attractive “Early” woman, maybe one or two out of 100 might choose an adult date. But at my level—an old man—I’m confident that not a single woman would choose one, even if I met a thousand or ten thousand women.
As an exception, if the woman had extreme social anxiety, or if I offered conditions like, “Dinner will be four hours including a second stop, while a room will be exactly two hours,” then perhaps a few women might choose the adult date. Time is money.
> Once, when a woman I had met agreed to an adult date, she happily said, “You really wanted to have sex, didn’t you?” I could only smile awkwardly.
These creepy old men, whose heads are floating in a flower garden—with cannabis flowers blooming—are probably the ones offering low allowances. They probably think, “She really wants sex anyway, and she’ll enjoy it, so naturally I should get a discount.”
Women who receive offers after joining Universe Club have no trouble finding someone to have sex with. There’s no way they want to be held by pot-bellied, hairy old men or grandpas... They’re not stupid so much as blissfully delusional. It’s like thinking, “You wouldn’t start a war against someone who’s unarmed, would you?”
I was just on an adult date with my monthly-arrangement partner. She climaxed about five times each, internally and externally, but if I told her, “I’ll give you 130,000 yen even for dinner only,” she would choose dinner dates forever. She might choose an adult date a few times out of fear that I’d cut things off, though.
The A-type girl didn’t fall for me because I’m attractive as a man or because she wanted to have sex with me and the relationship naturally developed into something intimate. In short, it was the power of money. The reason a men’s-esthetic worker falls for me is also the power of money.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
How ridiculous.
Update:
I realized these people simply don’t understand the diversity of people’s preferences and desires.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I don’t think there’s any need to break it down that way.
In the first place, you can’t make a blanket statement about this with any type of relationship. Relationship types simply indicate how proactive someone is. As for which desire is stronger, that’s something the man should consider carefully after reading the profile thoroughly.
Besides, even if a woman writes that she likes intimacy, you don’t really know whether she truly does.
I also think everyone has a different standard for what “liking” something means. You might think adding words like “a lot” or “a little” would solve the problem, but that misses the point.
What that woman considers “really liking it” might be the same as what you consider “not particularly liking it.”