Would you want to end the relationship if I looked unattractive without makeup?
My papa (a male supporter) suggested spending the night together, but I’m not confident about my bare face and really don’t feel comfortable showing it. We have a good relationship, and I don’t want him to dislike me.
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂20s👑Universe female member
I’m not very good at makeup, so if he’s going to be disappointed by my bare face, it’d probably just be because of my colored contacts.
Sorry, I don’t really know much about overnight arrangements…!
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Whether it’s a conventional relationship or this kind of arrangement, I’ve never once thought about ending things after seeing a woman without makeup.
I don’t think men care about it as much as women imagine—and even fewer would actually think she looks unattractive.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Men will always say, “I’m totally fine with seeing you without makeup.”
So they might say, “I’d love to see what you look like naturally…”
But if you actually show up barefaced and they find you unattractive, they’ll probably be considerate in the moment, but there’s still a good chance they’ll end things afterward.
After all, if men truly had no problem with someone looking unattractive without makeup, cosmetic-surgery beauties wouldn’t be disliked so much.
If the change is enough to make you look like a completely different person, I think you’re better off firmly refusing.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
If you’re staying overnight, I can see why you’d be concerned about being seen without makeup. I’ve never really suited heavy makeup, so I don’t look all that different. If you look very different without makeup, it might be a good idea to let your papa (a male supporter) know beforehand that you’re self-conscious about it. There are also makeup products designed to last 24 hours these days, so why not use those for a more natural look?
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’d probably just be honest and say, “I’m not confident about it.”
If my papa still wanted to go, I’d take the trip, but if he then decided to end things, I might get mad and say, “That’s not what you said you wanted!” lol
Apparently, men don’t care about it as much as women think they do♪
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
99% of women don’t look as bad without makeup as they think they do.
In fact, I feel that most women look perfectly fine even bare-faced.
That said, among the tiny fraction—less than 1%—there are some who make you think, “Whoa… she looks completely different.”
If you happen to fall into that less-than-1%, I’d suggest getting much closer first—close enough that neither of you cares about appearances—before going on a trip together.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
We papas evaluate women overall.
Even if her breasts aren’t great, it’s fine if she’s good down there. Even if that’s not her strong point, we’ll keep seeing her if we enjoy going out to eat together. And even if she doesn’t look great without makeup, there’s no problem if she’s good in bed.
That said, I completely understand not wanting to be seen without makeup, so I generally don’t stay overnight. When we travel, I book separate rooms.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I don’t think men care nearly as much about women going makeup-free as women worry they do. I’ve never seen a woman without makeup and thought she was unattractive or decided to end things.
I think turning down an overnight stay is riskier than letting him see you without makeup.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
If you have a good relationship with your papa (male supporter), I don’t think showing him your bare face would change anything… If that made him dislike you, I wouldn’t call it a good relationship in the first place.
And if he says, “That’s a deal-breaker for me,” just tell him, “Actually, you’re the one I can’t deal with!”
That said, I know it takes courage to show someone your bare face, so I’d recommend only showing it to someone you truly feel you can trust.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
