For those of you who are female members, who do you turn to when you have problems with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
I’m currently seeing one papa (a male supporter), but I’m unsure whether I should continue. I haven’t told anyone around me about my papa-katsu, but sometimes I just want someone to listen…
By the way, I’ve already left the club.
I used to turn to this Q&A site myself whenever I was struggling. Hearing different perspectives helped me broaden my outlook.
Even after becoming an answerer, I still have my own worries and sometimes come here for advice. I don’t know whether I can be of much help to you, but I hope you’ll find some hints here that help you see things differently.
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Seeking advice from others often seems to boil down to either leaving the decision up to them or ignoring whatever they say.
If you’re not really looking for advice and just want someone to listen to you vent, I think it’s best to become friends with people involved in similar activities.
Come to think of it, some of the question-box respondents seem to be connected behind the scenes. (笑)
If you were previously registered with Universe, you can apparently become a respondent even if you’ve since withdrawn, so maybe you could try answering questions yourself.
That said, they’re only connected behind the scenes, and I’m not involved in that myself.
Apparently, once you’ve posted a lot of answers, other respondents may reach out to you.
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When it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I don’t really ask other people for advice.
I usually go with my intuition, and it hasn’t led me too far wrong.
Marika
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papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) isn’t something you can continue forever. At some point, you’ll have to bring it to an end.
Right now, is the relationship mutually beneficial? I think you should give that some serious thought before deciding what to do.
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Why not become a respondent and connect with other female respondents to vent and share stories about your relationships?
They’ll probably be much kinder to you than they are in the usual Q&A♡
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