Hotel → dinner
Which is better?
For girls, this is quite the ultimate question, isn’t it?
With dinner → hotel,
you start feeling depressed thinking, “Ugh, so I’m going to have sex with this guy now...”
The restaurant is brightly lit, so you get a painfully clear view of the older guy’s face and dirty teeth, which is a major turn-off.
With hotel → dinner,
you hate going out to eat with your hair and face all sticky after the older guy has slobbered all over you.
And then there’s the feeling of, “Finally, sex is over! I did it! ...Oh, right, there’s still one more thing left to do. Dinner, huh...”
So which plan is easier on you, both mentally and physically?
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You wouldn’t want either with a strange papa (male supporter), would you? It also seems like the questioner may be doing something that attracts offers only from that type of papa.
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“Not that person again…” is what comes to mind.
This isn’t some ultimate question or anything. Some people prefer to eat first, while others prefer to go to a hotel first. That’s all it comes down to.
If you’re a man, you can simply ask the woman what she prefers.
Since the questioner is a woman, it seems like she only needs to decide which she prefers and tell the other person.
That said, this is disguised as a question, but where exactly is the question?
For example, if I wrote:
“Do you think I like the person who posted question 13494, or do you think I dislike them?”
Would that really count as a question?
Or what about:
“Which do you think would make me happier: hiding this question (13494), or leaving it visible?”
Would that be considered a question?
It says “What do you think?”, but this isn’t really a question at all.
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How about suggesting hotel only?
Since the person asking doesn’t want either dinner or a hotel, it removes one thing they dislike.
And the papa (male supporter) saves the cost of dinner too.
Win-win.
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I only have dinner with someone who makes me feel that way, and only have an adult relationship with someone who’s that affectionate with me.
To answer your question: after dinner, do we go to a hotel or back to the hotel room…? That’s usually how it goes. When we go somewhere far away, though, we part ways separately.
Akari
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It’s less about whether dinner or the hotel comes first—it depends on the person you’re seeing.
It’s an issue with them, but also with you. Only date people you genuinely like.
Marika
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You don’t need to do papa-katsu—just quit already.
P.S.
My ideal plan would be something like:
Dinner → go somewhere → hotel → dinner → another stop → go out and have dessert
So why not do papa-katsu with someone you actually want to spend time with, without worrying about the allowance—or even if it stays the same?
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This is more of a place to vent, isn’t it?
From the questioner’s perspective, it sounds like both options are equally difficult. Maybe you could ask your papa to alternate between them as a change of pace?
Also, whether it’s due to financial circumstances or your own skills, it seems that dinner only (no intimacy) isn’t bringing you the allowance you want. You could suggest doing hotel dates only instead, which might eliminate one source of stress.
There are also a small number of people who are willing to spend time together for dinner only, and since this isn’t an either-or situation, you could explore that option too. Outside of a club, I’m currently seeing someone for dinner only. I have my reasons, and for now I have no intention of developing it into an adult relationship (though she might turn me down anyway).
Please don’t push yourself too hard.
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That sounds pretty depressing for both of you…
Forcing yourself to continue seeing someone just for the allowance can really take a toll on you, both mentally and physically…
With the person I’m seeing, we usually go from dinner to a hotel. Since it’s a city hotel, it’s more often hotel → dinner → hotel.
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