I hate it when my papa (a male supporter) sends me recordings of himself singing over LINE, tries to take me to karaoke, or plays Japanese music in the background during sex.
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Are all the men on Universe like this?
Is this just normal for older guys??
Please give me a way to turn him down without hurting his feelings.
He’s a man in his 40s whose personality and performance in bed both leave a lot to be desired, but his allowance is generous (well-paying), so I feel like that makes up for it.
Until now, it was
Dinner → hotel,
but recently it’s become
Dinner → karaoke → hotel.
And his song choices are slightly outdated songs that young people like, which makes me cringe.
He often sings Ado and Yuuri, lol.
“I don’t dislike your voice, your face,
or even your awkwardness—
I don’t dislike any of it.
Just like dried flowers,
our days together will surely, surely, surely, surely
fade in color.”
LOL
When an older guy sings this, it takes on a completely different meaning, doesn’t it? LOLLLLL
Also, it’s annoying when he messages me while I’m busy with work.
Apparently he’s really into singing and sends me recordings of his voice, but I’m working hard over here—don’t send me something that sounds so awful. It honestly makes me furious.
I’ve never listened to a single one. I just reply with things like “Wow, amazing!” or “You’re really good!” and he seems perfectly satisfied with that, lol.
Also, karaoke makes the time we’re together much longer, so I want him to increase my allowance accordingly.
Maybe it’s just a matter of getting used to it, but I can see right through his “You like me, so you want to spend more time together, right?” attitude, and it’s painful....
And I really wish he’d stop playing Japanese music in the background during sex. Western music would still be okay.
The lyrics get stuck in my head, and when I apply their meaning to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I end up feeling empty and can’t concentrate.
The other day, Masaki Suda’s “Finding Mistakes” came on, and I burst out laughing.
“Your hand had touched mine,
our fingers intertwined.
Whether it was a mistake or the right thing,
that didn’t matter anymore.
I fell in an instant,
in a pale haze,
and all I could think was
that it had to be you.”
LOL
I really wish he’d stop, LOL.
Do you think papa (a male supporter) notices me laughing and does it on purpose??
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Well, the questioner may be poking fun at the existence of such papas while hoping for an answer that sides with them.
“That’s exactly why you’re no good!”
—so says G-chan, who has savings that round up to nine figures.
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The fact that they go out of their way to add “LOL” makes me think…
There was a man who used to post here pretending to be a woman, but apparently no one was catching on, so now he deliberately writes things like “LOL.”
It really makes you wonder how obsessive he is.
So, basically, it sounds like a longtime male poster has been harassing people while pretending to be a woman.
That’s why I wish everyone would just stop answering him altogether, but everyone’s so kind that they keep responding.
It’s troubling when someone takes advantage of that kindness.
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That was a misstep.
When he first took you to karaoke, you should’ve made it clear that you weren’t comfortable with it. Since you complimented him and all, your papa probably got the wrong idea—though maybe he genuinely likes karaoke.
If you want to continue papa-katsu without stressing yourself out, you’ll have to handle things more carefully. Once you agree to something at the beginning, it becomes the default.
Are you assuming all older men are like that just because this is the only papa you’ve had?
If they all love karaoke, insist on Japanese songs, and want an adult relationship, then I guess you’ll just have to put up with it to get your allowance（笑）
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How much are you getting for two hours of karaoke?
Calculate it as an hourly rate. If you find something that pays better, move on.
Keep it businesslike.
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I assume you’re putting up with it because the allowance is generous, but generally speaking, it’s difficult to change the course once things have been established.
Please be more careful with the men you see from now on.
This applies to most things: if you start off on the wrong footing, that often becomes the standard. So you shouldn’t allow it in the first place—or, if you do, set clear limits, such as making it a one-time exception.
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There’s inevitably an age gap with a papa (a male supporter), so your favorite songs and the topics you’re interested in will probably be different.
But you can also see it as a chance to learn something new and make the most of it. If you’d rather go from dinner straight to a hotel, wouldn’t spending a long time at a hotel feel tiring in its own way? And if you dislike karaoke, you could say something like, “My throat is sensitive and I get a fever easily, so I try not to go to karaoke.”
Personally, if listening to me sing songs I like would make him happy, I’d be happy to do it.
In the end, maybe you dislike everything because you simply don’t like that papa?
When you’re with someone you like, just being together is fun ♡
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“I’m not very good at karaoke…” should be enough, I think.
I don’t really understand why you’d go out of your way to list all the lyrics here.
I wouldn’t mind if he sang Yuuri or “Tsugaru Kaikyō” in the driver’s seat.
If he’s enjoying himself, it puts me in a good mood too.
And age has nothing to do with whether you like a song. Your taste and sensibility aren’t limited by age.
When an elementary school kid with a great voice sings enka or ’90s pop, everyone goes, “Wow!”—but finding it creepy when the opposite happens is just strange.
Akari
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I don’t go to karaoke, and I don’t usually keep in touch outside of our dates.
As for the length of the date, I use an hourly rate because I want it to be a win-win for both of us.
If I want to stay longer, I simply give her extra allowance for the additional time. If she wants to earn more, she can spend longer with me; if she’s short on time, she can just leave after a short date.
That said, thanks to there being so many weird papas like the one you’re dealing with, someone like me who doesn’t expect anything is actually appreciated.
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Does anyone actually choose karaoke songs based on whether they suit their voice?
You sing a song at karaoke simply because you like it, right?
Even if you think the guy is terrible, you flatter him by saying he’s good—that’s the trick to getting a decent allowance out of him.
On the other hand, you might end up being told, “Are women from Universe really like that?” lol.
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Exactly. We might fit in karaoke, which can turn into endless karaoke, or go for a spa treatment, foot reflexology, or a massage. Sometimes we’ll see a movie, make a night of it, or just do nothing at all…
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