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Jun 22, 2022 13:08
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I’m not the person who asked this question, but I’m dealing with the same issue.
At first, even men who would only go once during a two-hour hotel stay gradually started extending the time. Then, saying it would be a waste to finish after three hours, they stop midway and ask for it four or five times.
Afterward, I’m in severe pain down there.
How should I explain this so we can continue seeing each other with a reasonable number of times?
I’m sure it would be difficult to ask for a higher allowance just because the number of times has increased. I’d rather keep the allowance as it is and have a reasonable number of times.
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Other
I can’t help thinking that if you can tolerate it when the allowance is higher, then you can tolerate it after all...
You could say things like, “It starts hurting pretty quickly,” or “I actually feel better when you rub my back, so I’d like you to do that.”
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It sounds like you’re not compatible, so it’s probably best to end things.
Personally, I actually get along better with women who say they want to take their time and have sex.
Other
1. Be honest and tell him that it’s starting to hurt.
2. Let him know in advance what time you need to leave, then end things by saying wistfully, “I’m sorry, but I have to go now.”
Repeat steps 1 and 2.
If he still doesn’t take the hint, I think it’s best to part ways.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You should probably tell him, “It hurts, so I’d like to keep it to once.” Otherwise, he may not realize that you’re uncomfortable. If you don’t want to end things, just be careful about how you phrase it.
I’m also fairly well-endowed, so I usually ask for a second round. Some women have told me they’d prefer to keep it to once because it hurts.
In those cases, I continue seeing women who are satisfied with just one round. If they aren’t, I look for someone who’s okay with two.
The women I continue with on a monthly arrangement are generally either okay with two rounds or more sexually adventurous and say they’re fine with going more than that. I choose women like that and continue seeing them.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
There’s a theory that the reason my allowance is high is partly because I’m fairly well-endowed, so it’s also meant as compensation for that, haha.
Even adult film actresses have told me it’s large, so I figure it’s at least not small…
That said, I can control how quickly I finish. If we’re compatible, I can keep going without climaxing and continue for as many rounds as she wants. With my favorite partner, I make sure to finish quickly.
I don’t see someone a second time if it seems painful for her. I feel bad and start worrying about her, and I want to avoid a situation where she puts up with the pain just because the allowance is generous.
I feel so sorry for you, asker… But since you must have reasons you can’t simply cut things off—that’s probably why you keep asking about it—I can’t just tell you to break up with him, either… Sorry this isn’t much of an answer.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You should break up with him as soon as possible.
Besides, honestly, it takes most men less than three minutes to finish.
You could either learn how to make a man climax quickly,
or master the art of reaching orgasm quickly yourself—seeing that is incredibly exciting for a man.
As men get older, if they miss their moment, it becomes harder for them to climax.
Even without climaxing, if both partners are highly aroused, they can still feel very satisfied.
In your case, though, the two of you simply aren’t compatible, so there’s no point in continuing.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Will you die if you say it hurts or that you’re having a hard time?
I think it’s okay to say that it hurts when it does, and that you’re having a hard time when you are.