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Jun 20, 2022 17:49
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If everything is dismissed as trolling and the site ends up filled with nothing but rigid, overly formal questions, won’t it just become a superficial papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) information site, no different from the kind of information you can easily find online?
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I think questions are fine as long as they’re related to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), regardless of how serious they are.
Lately, though, I’ve noticed a lot of questions that don’t seem related in the slightest. I also have no idea what determines whether a question gets hidden(笑).
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I agree with Makeotoko. I think the restrictions are too excessive. If things get lively, I don’t see why that would be a problem.
Since more than half of my answers are jokes posted under a poop icon, I feel a bit out of place if the site is limited to serious questions only.
Most of the regular answerers are pretty thick-skinned and capable of giving as good as they get, so I think it should be fine. That said, all the veteran answerers are angry, so there must be something I’m not understanding. Maybe it’s because I only look at the adult questions...
This trend started after IP addresses began being displayed to answerers, right? By the way, I don’t think an IP address is precise enough to identify an individual, but is that really okay? People connected to the same node should have the same IP address, and even people in different municipalities can apparently share one...
Taro
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Please come up with and write a question that makes it clear to everyone that this is a serious question.
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I don’t recall ever seeing a question hidden because it seemed too serious.
Could you tell me which of the questioner’s “serious questions” you mean?
I don’t think the questions currently visible are all stuffy or overly formal.
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What serious concern did you ask about?
I’m sure the staff member gave it some thought, so they didn’t mean any harm.
Please try asking again so they can understand how serious you are.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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You’ve hidden so many questions that I’m starting to lose the motivation to answer them.
Whether a question is serious or not,
“A good question is one that gets answers.”
So if a question gets answers, I think it should be displayed. Answering isn’t mandatory—if you don’t want to answer a question, you can simply ignore it.
Is the company president getting too involved in day-to-day operations? Sorry if I’m mistaken. Until recently, the policy was basically not to hide questions, but then it suddenly changed. A policy reversal that quick couldn’t have happened without the president’s involvement.
It seems like the president’s word carries far more weight than that of the staff on the ground. Maybe the company still has that owner-managed mindset? Though I’d say the organization is already plenty big enough.
I think an anonymous question box should be half serious and half entertainment. That’s what “anonymous” is all about. And papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) isn’t the same as genuinely falling in love—it’s about both sides bluffing and negotiating while creating the best possible arrangement together. I’d like there to be room for things to be casual and playful. Once the pro-wrestling element disappears and everything becomes completely serious, it gets boring.
The person who said:
“Loser! You’re an idiot, aren’t you? What’s your highest level of education? I went to Todai’s science and medicine track!”
I absolutely love you. Please come back and insult me even more♡ It was so much fun!!
Surely it’s more entertaining for the viewers when it feels like pro wrestling too (≧∇≦)
Even pro wrestling is half real, after all!!
For the record, my highest level of education isn’t Todai’s science and medicine track—it’s Nishiki 3.
P.S.
If you think about it normally, they’re probably running an A/B test on the CVR.
They’re testing whether the conversion rate (CVR)—the rate at which people sign up as members through the anonymous question box—is higher when low-quality questions or multiple questions from the same person are hidden or when they’re displayed.
If they’re deciding what to display or hide for any other reason, then I’m sorry, but I can hardly call that good business sense.
It’s painfully obvious that without money, you can’t provide a good papa-katsu environment.
If they’re hiding questions for reasons other than an A/B test, I can’t help but say, “That’s why you only make 200 million yen.”
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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I don’t think that’s the case.
If you want it to be displayed as a serious question and serve as a useful reference for other members and people who are just starting to take an interest, it would be better to word it more thoughtfully.
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), as with society in general, what matters is how the reader or recipient feels.
> “I’d like you to leave room for some ‘play.’ It wouldn’t be fun if the pro-wrestling element disappeared and everything became serious.”
> “You’re a loser! Are you stupid? What’s your highest level of education? I’m in Science III!”
It’s funny, though.
As an aside, just for fun: if anyone wants the genes of someone from Science III, I’m open to reverse offers. Someone with at least a high school diploma might be okay… But genius and stupidity are two sides of the same coin, so I have no idea which way it’ll go…