I’m having trouble deciding whether to join and which dating type to choose.

It’s interesting to see so many different opinions. Since opinions seem to be divided even within the agency, I think either option is fine. That said, with Type A, it may be easier to turn down an adult relationship than with Type B, since it’s dinner only (no intimacy) to begin with. With Type B, some people unfortunately assume that an adult relationship is a given. If you turn them down, they may get angry or lecture you, which could lead to unnecessary trouble.

What value does a virgin have if she can’t share that experience with her boyfriend? She should find a boyfriend and make it a lifelong memory… Turning it into money? Then don’t join a club. It’s not some kind of fetish club… Tell every man who makes you an offer that your first kiss costs around ¥100,000… Well, thinking that an adult relationship should be around ¥1 million is pretty normal by general standards (though I’d never join a club)… And to the Universe staff: it’s a “dating” club, so don’t rely on some one-time gimmick like that. We don’t need one-hit wonders—whether male or female.

So you’re a virgin, right? In that case, choosing B should be fine. I’ll make sure to note it clearly in the comments. Since you’re a virgin, it’s basically B, but very close to A. However, you said you want to choose your first partner from among the men registered here. Something along those lines, perhaps? If you’re in Osaka, there’s a staff member named Kurosaki who will let you register even if you’re a virgin. I wonder who it would be in Tokyo? I used to handle that myself, but… I’m sure there are staff members outside Tokyo and Osaka who would understand as well, but I don’t know exactly who they are. The other day, a virgin woman happened to be turned away after her interview. It sounded like she was only interested in dinner, so I thought, “Oh no…” >＜ It really made me realize that whether or not you get registered can depend heavily on the staff member conducting the interview. So, in order to get registered, you may need to say something a little more emphatically, such as: “My relationship type is definitely B. I came here to find my first partner. If I meet a man I really like, I will absolutely become intimate with him.” Otherwise, you might be rejected at the interview. The important part is making it clear that you’ve decided your first partner will be a man registered with Universe. If you simply say, “I can do it if he’s a nice person,” they may think that the chances of meeting someone you like aren’t very high, that you’re actually an A, or that you’re only looking for dinner and should give up on registering. But from your question, it’s clear that you would be willing to do it if the allowance were high enough. (笑) I don’t know whether you mean ¥300,000 or ¥500,000 for the first time, though. So I can tell that you’re serious. However, I wouldn’t reveal that part during the interview. Instead, show your sincerity with something like: “I want to receive long-term support from a good man. If I find someone like that, I’ll definitely be fine. For men, it’s all about the heart.” I think showing that level of determination would work well. Men also go on dates with all kinds of women, so when they meet you, they’ll quickly be able to tell whether you were telling the truth. And even if a man complains, the staff can review his previous feedback and judge whether what he’s saying makes sense. So if you’re genuinely serious, choosing B is perfectly fine. However, if your real goal is dinner only and you’re lying about it, you’ll be found out, so please don’t do that.

Based on what you’ve written, I’d say option A—but unless you’re exceptionally attractive, you probably won’t receive many offers. Have you honestly assessed yourself in that regard? Also, if you can’t accept the going rate, your expectations may be quite high. Approaching papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with that mindset can leave a bad impression, and women who come across as overly money-focused rarely maintain an ongoing arrangement with a good papa (a male supporter). And if you have no experience, wouldn’t it be better to first experience an adult relationship (intimate) with a boyfriend? Given your way of thinking, rather than registering here after gaining that experience with a boyfriend, I think you might be better off finding a reliable papa yourself at a high-end club in Ginza or somewhere similar.

I want to be careful about choosing my partner for my first experience. I’m hoping for an allowance above the going rate, although I honestly don’t know what the going rate is… If you truly want to place that much importance on staying a virgin, why not find a boyfriend and have your first experience that way, instead of joining a dating club? Or do you think virginity has value and want to sell it for a high price?! I was late to have my first experience too, but if anything, I didn’t really want to tell people about it… I guess I felt embarrassed about being late. That’s why I find it strange that you’re being so demanding. If you want to be cautious about an adult relationship (intimate), wouldn’t a Type A arrangement be more suitable for you?

Start with A, and once you’re used to it, why not try changing it to something closer to B? ✧*｡٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و✧*｡

If you can decide after meeting a few times, that’s B. If you need to meet someone many times before deciding, that’s A. If you can tell from the first meeting, that’s C. The amount of allowance you’re hoping for and how high your bar is in terms of chemistry have nothing to do with whether it’s A, B, or C.

I definitely think A is the better option. There’s less chance of men coming on too strong, so you should be able to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with more peace of mind. Don’t forget that you’re in a position to choose, and never push yourself beyond your comfort zone.

I think Relationship Type A would be the better choice. It might be a good idea to leave a comment along the lines of: “If I meet someone I can trust and really click with, I’m not opposed to an adult relationship (intimate), but I have no experience, so I’m honestly scared and being very cautious. I’d be really happy if you could understand that. I think it will take me some time to take that step toward an adult relationship m(__)m” > I don’t think I could accept anything around the going rate. Is it my time to step in? lol Assuming both of you click, I’d say the allowance for the first meeting (= graduation) would be around 30. After that, maybe 10+ on a pay-per-meeting basis. Since you’ll need to make an effort several times before graduation, if you try and it doesn’t work out, then it would be 10 each time. Once you’ve had intercourse—no, once you’ve succeeded… though maybe intercourse is the right word after all. Hmm, “succeeded” is probably better. If you manage to seikō, then 30. I’m not particularly interested in helping someone graduate, but while I’m not a professional at it, I’m not exactly an amateur either.