I’m the person who asked yesterday about a male member who told me he was married.
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Thank you for your kind answers.
I was glad to read everyone’s responses one by one and found myself agreeing with them. (Mac, I was happy that you empathized with me! Makeotoko, I personally don’t mind hearing about other girls—you’re not my wife, after all.)
At first, I was thinking of turning him down, but after reading the responses, I’ve changed my mind a little. I still don’t know how things will turn out, but if I come to feel that I’d like to continue seeing him even with the risks involved, I’ll use Aya’s answer as a model and try to figure out how to make things work for myself.
I’m glad I took the plunge and asked for advice.
Thank you very much.
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Everyone views risk differently, so I think it’s best to go with whatever approach feels right for you and your partner. It’s certainly not easy, but no matter what, pushing yourself too hard won’t make it sustainable. I hope you find a good match.
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Sorry I couldn’t answer!
I feel like there are two types of male members: those who go out of their way to mention that they’re married, and those who say it without any particular intention(´｡>ω(•ω•｡`)ぎゅー♡
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> Loser-san, I personally don’t have a problem hearing about your other girls! (You’re not my husband, after all.)
Thank you so much m(_ _;)m
When I first started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I kept my other dating partners completely secret and told each girl, “You’re the only one.” But earlier this year, I switched to being totally open about everything.
Honestly, both approaches have their pros and cons. Sometimes a woman looks hurt when she finds out I have other monthly arrangements, while other times she’ll confess, “Actually, I have three other papas (male supporters) too...” and we end up becoming closer.
These days, I’m enjoying pursuing women outside the dating club without giving them an allowance, so I’m contributing absolutely nothing to Universe Club. Still, I’d love to happen to meet you somewhere someday, question asker.
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I hope you meet a wonderful man!
Everyone has their own way of thinking and doing things, so I hope you find the approach that works best for you. Good luck!
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