What do you think it means when a relationship continues even if you’re not physically their type?
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Can things really continue based only on sexual compatibility and personality?
If someone who is more their type comes along,
there’s always a chance they could switch to that person, right?
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂20s👑Member of another dating club
My wife and the women I’m currently dating or have dated have all been my type appearance-wise, and we get along well personality-wise.
For me, a relationship won’t work unless both of those conditions are met, and I’ve never dated anyone who didn’t meet them.
Physical compatibility hasn’t been especially important to me. Since we’ll eventually both want to take things further, I sometimes wonder whether we might naturally become more compatible over time.
Because I place importance on personality too, I don’t switch partners that easily. But if someone like that happened to appear now, I suppose I’d simply end up dating one more person, since it would mean seeing multiple people.
I’ll allow myself to be a little self-congratulatory this morning: at the beginning of a relationship, people often worry that I might move on to someone else, but once a relationship has continued for a while, I’ve never been the one to end it.
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For me, it’s about whether I can trust the woman.
Of course, I do have a preferred look. During the first year after we met, new members kept joining one after another, and there were some women I really liked, but I never got as far as making an offer.
Even with an age gap of over 40 years, we gradually became closer after that first year. By the time we’d been seeing each other for over three years, she had started saying I must have been handsome back in the day, so I found myself thinking, “Maybe this is fine as it is…” (lol)
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I’d say personality.
I like men who are kind and devoted♡ I care more about personality than looks. When I come to like someone as a person, they start looking attractive to me too.
After being hurt and led around by a handsome guy in the past, I stopped falling for someone just because of his looks.
Physical compatibility is something two people build together, so I think it gradually gets better over time.
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Even sexual compatibility alone might be enough to keep things going…
Outside the club, if you’re dating or married, maybe personality alone would be enough to make it last.
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I don’t think things will last based on looks alone, physical compatibility alone, or personality alone.
If someone finds a person they feel is better suited to them, it’s only natural that they may move on. That’s why I think it’s important to make an effort so that doesn’t happen. This applies to both men and women.
That said, since the man is the one paying the allowance, I feel he may have the upper hand. That’s precisely why I want to keep making an effort to look my best and enjoy our time together, don’t you think?!
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