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Jun 15, 2022 10:49
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Everyone’s different, so some women may date men who don’t have much money.
Personally, though, I’ve never dated anyone earning less than 4 million yen a year. I don’t come across men like that, but if I met someone wonderful enough that I felt I could support him, I might consider it.
Still, when I think about the future, it does make me feel uneasy…
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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I don’t mind what kind of person I marry.
If you truly intend to cherish your partner, you’ll find a way to manage the finances too. That’s part of showing love.
If she can’t see a future together or have any hope for the years ahead, the relationship probably won’t last. It’s not just about money—there has to be something that makes her feel you want to spend your future together, that she’s valued, and, beyond that, that she’s needed. Those are essential too.
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What is the asker really trying to find out?
In the previous question, it was about choosing between a papa and a boyfriend. This time, it seems to be about whether an attractive woman would date or marry a man without money.
The asker is attractive—rated Platinum or Black by Universe Club—and has a papa, so she can live comfortably. But she also has a boyfriend who doesn’t have much money and is considering marrying him.
Is she asking whether that would really be okay?!
Personally, I think saying, “If you love him, marry him even if he has no money,” is just an idealistic cliché. I believe having a certain level of financial stability is important. Especially if you’re currently living comfortably, you have to ask yourself whether you could handle it if you could no longer maintain that lifestyle.
I’m not saying I need a celebrity lifestyle, but I don’t think I could accept a lower standard of living than what I have now.
Of course, that’s just my personal opinion. Some people may feel that love matters more than money.
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There are people like that, aren’t there?
Besides, in your twenties, an annual income of ¥4 million generally wouldn’t be considered “having no money.”
What if there are?