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Jun 14, 2022 14:37
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
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Even if you explain the difference, I doubt the person asking will be satisfied.
I think it’s one of those questions that serves no real purpose.
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I’ve never done compensated dating, so I can’t really say.
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I see it as spending time with people I respect both as human beings and as men. I also have papas (male supporters) where there’s no adult relationship (intimate), so I think there are all kinds of arrangements.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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If it feels right to you, other people’s opinions don’t matter.
You might meet someone who feels like a once-in-a-lifetime connection—the kind of person or encounter that makes you think they’re the only one in the world.
That could happen through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), or anywhere else.
When it comes to meeting someone, it doesn’t matter how or where it happens.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
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If someone wrote, “I see looking for love as the same thing as compensated dating,” wouldn’t you think, “Huh?”
恋活 means making an effort to find a romantic partner, right? But some people are contrarian and might say, “If you’re planning to have your partner support you financially, isn’t that the same as compensated dating?”
I think the person asking this question may be one of those contrarians.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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People with a good head on their shoulders can immediately see that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and enjo are two completely different things. But to people who can’t adjust their level of abstraction—in other words, those who aren’t very bright—they may look like the same thing.
If papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and enjo look the same to you, then your intelligence is...
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Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is about finding a papa (a male supporter). Konkatsu is about finding a spouse, and ninkatsu is about trying to get pregnant.
Enko is short for enjo-kosai, or compensated dating involving sex. According to Wikipedia, it is “a form of prostitution or purchasing sex that involves sexual activity or dates in exchange for money or other compensation.”
That’s the difference.