I understand that black hair is the most popular and tends to attract the most offers, but I wanted to ask.
As for hair, is it really difficult to receive offers if you have a vivid inner color?
By “inner color,” I mean I’ve only dyed the sideburn area.
It’s also covered by my black hair from above, so it just looks like a small accent when I tuck my hair behind my ear.
Would it be difficult for someone like me to receive offers?
It’s not particularly popular with men, so I think it may affect the offers you receive. If you’re not taking it that seriously, you can leave it as it is.
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When it comes to how easy it is to receive offers, it can get complicated, but I think it’s better to look at it in terms of how many men are willing to make offers to women who don’t have black hair.
In other words, whether her hair is brown, blonde, blue, or green, a woman who appeals to someone will receive offers.
What this means is that while most men won’t make offers to women with hair colors other than black, there are still a few men who don’t care about hair color.
So if you happen to be the type those men prefer, you can receive offers regardless of your hair color.
However, with black hair, you might have the potential to receive offers from over 4,000 men, whereas with an unusual hair color, perhaps only around 100 men would consider you. (The numbers are just examples.)
That said, if even one of those 100 men wants to make you an offer, you’ll receive one. On the other hand, even with black hair, you won’t receive an offer if none of those 4,000 men find you appealing enough.
When you look at it that way, it ultimately comes down to the woman’s own appeal, regardless of her hair color.
But if you’re asking because you wouldn’t mind changing your hair to black, then black hair would give you more opportunities.
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As you said, black hair probably gets the best response. Maybe a slightly brown shade would work too.
That said, rather than hiding your hair color for the interview and then meeting men who make you offers, I think it’s better to be upfront about it during the interview and in your photos.
That way, you’ll receive offers from people who are interested in you regardless of your hair color. I think that’s perfectly fine.
I believe that people who attract offers will get them no matter what color their hair is. Having black hair doesn’t guarantee you’ll receive offers either… Personally, I think it’s better to stay true to yourself.
If you really want offers and feel that dyeing your hair black would be worth it, then go ahead and dye it.
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The real issue isn’t that—it’s what the person asking the question actually wants to do, and what their goal is.
It’s obvious that black hair gives you an advantage, so why not keep your hair black normally and wear colorful extensions underneath when you’re not doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
When you push your preferences onto other people (something I’m very good at), you end up putting yourself at a disadvantage. In your case, being attached to having inner-color hair is ultimately going to work against you.
If making money through papa-katsu is your priority right now, then obviously you should switch to black hair immediately. If you don’t want to do that, you simply shouldn’t expect to make a lot through papa-katsu.
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If it’s noticed during the interview, I think they’ll mention it in the comments. Even if they don’t, some men will still care if they notice when they meet her in person. Conversely, if it isn’t mentioned in the comments, they might even complain to the club.
That said, I think some male members won’t mind at all. I’ve met blond women before, and I’ve even had someone show up in Gothic Lolita attire. As long as we can have a conversation, it’s fine. Personally, the hardest thing is sitting through an entire course at a high-end restaurant when the conversation never gets going.
Looks may be what gets things started, so it might narrow your options a little, but I think it’s best to just be yourself. The most difficult situation is meeting someone and finding that they’re completely different from the image you had in mind.
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