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Jun 10, 2022 10:20
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My concern is that she’s married. She’s relatively young.
I’m considering the following:
① Not worrying about it
② Keeping messages on LINE, etc. to a minimum, and using private rooms at restaurants for dates so we won’t be seen by others
③ Preparing a written agreement stating that I would bear no responsibility in the event of an affair-related dispute
④ If it bothers me, giving up on her
Those are some of the options I’ve been considering. I’m single.
I’d appreciate hearing from experienced male members who have dated married women in the past.
4 answers
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’d choose option ④, no question.
Married men are a no-go for me. When there are plenty of other great girls out there, I’m not going to take unnecessary risks.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I once dated someone without knowing he was married, and it turned into a complete disaster, so I avoid married men now. But before that happened, I was fine with them.
I think you’re a wonderful woman for being upfront about being married. Women have all kinds of circumstances, and it’s a man’s role to accept them.
That said, I can’t handle married men anymore, lol. This answer isn’t really answering your question at all—sorry!
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re not looking for an affair or romance here.
The biggest appeal of a dating club is that both men and women can find someone who’s an ideal match without compromising on any of their terms.
So if being married is something you’re having to compromise on, you’d be better off ending things and looking for someone easier to deal with.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
③ doesn’t really serve any purpose. Please weigh the risks and benefits for yourself and decide.