Tips Jun 7, 2022 13:12

Does falling in love mean you lose in a dating club?

This content is machine-translated.
The men I have monthly arrangements with often tell me, “Because I like you, it’s fine. The one who falls in love loses.... Heh.” (with a wistful, faraway look) Is that really how it works? Is there such a thing as winning or losing in a dating club?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
💗 Likes 0 👁️ Views 61 💬 Answers 14
🔖 ID +gnX~-00000 🎯 Looking for answers from 誰でも

7 answers

ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s not because it’s a dating club—it’s the same as in love: whoever falls harder loses.
(3 replies left)
だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
I believe a relationship should benefit both people, so rather than having a winner and a loser, it should be a draw.
(3 replies left)
I don't think so.
(3 replies left)
I think it’s a win-win for both sides (*^^*)
(3 replies left)
I don’t think this is really about winning or losing, but… If that’s how the questioner’s papas (male supporters) are, couldn’t you just tell them, “I only want to meet at hotels, not apartments,” and be done with it? You don’t even need to ask—go ahead and be as demanding as you want! After all, they’re in love with you, so you’re the one in the stronger position, right? And if they’re different papas, you have plenty of other monthly-arrangement supporters, so you can simply say goodbye to anyone who causes you this much stress! No need to worry—just keep doing what you’re doing!
(3 replies left)
紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Men lose when they fall in love, and end up wanting to go give her money.
(3 replies left)
I don’t think there’s anything in particular. Marika
(3 replies left)