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Jun 7, 2022 13:09
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Personally, I probably wouldn’t be put off by most things, haha.
But I feel like some men might be. Some have odd preferences, like insisting that your hair must be black or that you have to wear miniskirts.
So if that man’s particular preference happened to be restraint play, I feel like he might not want to see you again after that.
That’s why, basically, I think it’s best not to do anything. However, the man may feel the same way, so you could casually test the waters by saying something like, “My friend said she tried restraint play recently.”
If he seems interested, you could steer the conversation toward, “I’d like to try it next time, so could you buy what we need and bring it?” In other words, you could have him bring it.
If he forgets to bring it next time, he probably just went along with the conversation and wasn’t actually that interested in restraint play. In that case, you can simply avoid bringing up the subject yourself after that.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t particularly mind, but I think it’s better to wait until you’ve been seeing each other for a while and have built up some trust.
I sometimes blindfold women who are really submissive, too, but only after we’ve gone on several dates.
In fact, I’m planning to do that soon. With a Type B woman, things progressed like this: two dinner dates → regular sex → a toy (Womanizer) → an oil massage → being restrained and blindfolded.
Don’t rush it—just enjoy the process.
Other
Every now and then, trying something like that could be exciting and fun.
That said, it might be a little too much to ask for out of the blue, so I’d recommend easing into it little by little!
I’d suggest casually asking, “What kinds of things have you tried in the past?” as a conversation starter.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’d appreciate it if you told me.
I do that sometimes.
Other
It might be worth mentioning it only to someone you’ve met once and who, based on the way they talk, seems like they might be into taking the dominant role.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
A blindfold alone is fine, but restraints are a different matter, so you need to carefully choose the right time to bring them up.
Other
I completely agree with Kazu.
I think it’s best to casually drop hints like, “I kind of like it when someone does things like this to me,” and see how he reacts.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Rather than asking for it outright, I think it’s better to take it one step at a time and see how he reacts.