I’m a woman considering signing up again. Would it be a problem to register with the Tokyo branch even though I live outside the city?
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The reason is simply that I want to go on dates in Tokyo.
Where I live, there are only a handful of large hotels, so I’m honestly tired of always meeting at the same hotel, going to the same overused love hotels, and eating at the same kinds of restaurants.
My arrangements don’t tend to last very long, so I probably won’t be getting close enough to a papa (a male supporter) to travel or go somewhere far away with him in the future either.
Since I’m doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) anyway, I’d rather do it in the city. I’m a country girl, after all.
It’s not that I’m expecting papas to take me to fancy hotel restaurants or rooms. I simply want to do papa-katsu in exciting places in the city. If we aren’t compatible, I plan to go sightseeing on my own after we part ways. There are so many places I want to see and things I want to do in Tokyo.
I’d be running a huge deficit, but I’m thinking of covering my own transportation costs—around ¥5,000 to ¥10,000. If I’m lucky enough to meet someone I really click with and things naturally progress to an adult relationship (intimate), I’d be happy if I received just a little extra spending money. That would be enough for me.
Of course, I understand that there’s also a chance I might not receive any offers.
My main goal isn’t sightseeing—it’s papa-katsu, hoping to meet a papa (a male supporter) I’m perfectly compatible with.
Would it be a bad idea to register again with the Tokyo branch under these circumstances? Would it cause trouble for the club as well…?
So you’re registered with the branch closest to the address on your residence record, huh? Σ(ﾟдﾟ；)
If you explain the situation above directly to the staff, they might be willing to consider it♪
Or maybe you could try going on a Tokyo date with your current papa (^^)
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I don’t think it’s a bad idea.
Joe also lived outside the major cities, but basically only did papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) when visiting Tokyo on business. Since I had lived in Tokyo through middle and high school, I had plenty of old school friends there and knew my way around, so I was able to enjoy it.
I’m currently staying in Kyoto for an extended period due to personal circumstances. Personally, I think Kyoto may actually be better suited to being a kept partner than Tokyo. So if you live somewhere closer to Kyoto than Tokyo, you might want to consider Kyoto as an option.
The problem is that the staff at the Kyoto branch don’t seem to have realized that Kyoto is the perfect place for papa-katsu.
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You sound curious, energetic, and willing to take action.
I wouldn’t really recommend doing papa-katsu with that mindset, but I do think visiting Tokyo is worth considering.
It reminds me of when I was younger, back in my forties. I’m from a rural area myself, but my transfers took me to various parts of the country, where I got to experience the unique characteristics of each place.
In the end, there aren’t any major differences between Tokyo and other regions. Still, I remember thinking that Tokyo was a city that never sleeps—perhaps that’s what happens when you’re doing business with the whole world.
These days, I enjoy spending time with a young lady while looking out at the world from a regional area. We tend to stick to the same date routine, but it’s comfortable for both of us, and I’ve come to appreciate how nice that can be.
As they say, seeing is believing. Go see it for yourself, experience it firsthand, and then make your own decision.
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Rather than going through the trouble of changing your registered branch, how about appealing to male members in Tokyo by sending them a “You seem wonderful” message from your profile?
Luckily, it’s now possible to send messages with comments, so if you mention the transportation costs as well, some men may still be willing to make you an offer.
Since “a low continuation rate = the need to find new people” seems to be the situation, I imagine it must be tough to end up losing money on transportation costs, too.
Why not first try coming up with ways to encourage ongoing arrangements?
I was registered with a local branch in the past, but changed my registered branch to one in Tokyo after moving. Maybe the competition level is higher in Tokyo, because I felt that the number of offers decreased a little at first… sob.
※After that, I met someone wonderful, so it all worked out in the end♪
I hope you find someone wonderful, too.
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Interesting idea.
Basically, your branch is determined by where you live. So even if you attend a re-enrollment interview in Tokyo, you’ll still be registered with the branch that covers the address on your ID.
That said, if you temporarily move to Tokyo, transfer your resident registration there, and then go to the police to update the address on your driver’s license, the address on your ID will change too, making it possible to register in Tokyo.
As for where to live, if you have a friend there, you could stay with them and transfer your resident registration to that address.
Another option—although it would be in Saitama rather than Tokyo—is a net café. Apparently, there have been cases where people were able to register their residence there. In one case, they reportedly had to pay the net café ¥57,600 for 30 days.
Also, some rental offices in Tokyo apparently offer SOHO-style rooms (combined office and residence). They may have large, furnished, fully equipped rooms with one room per floor where resident registration is possible.
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Not being in the area where you actually live is a problem.
Personally, I can fly anywhere like a paper airplane, so I might find it kind of interesting and not worry about it too much…
But I’m sure there are men who would find it bothersome.
P.S.
As for resident registration records, someone can apparently use another person’s address without permission. It’s not unusual for multiple households to be registered at the same address, so it’s not impossible for someone else to be using your address without your knowledge.
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