I’m a male member living in Osaka. I always enjoy reading everyone’s answers.
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We can now add a comment when sending “You’re lovely♡,” but I receive “You’re lovely♡” from female members whose profiles have no comment or say they can meet in Tokyo. Are they just sending it at random?
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Personally, I ignore messages that just say “You’re lovely” with no other comment.
Even though I’d filled out my profile to some extent, the woman I met the other day hadn’t read it at all. Then she said she didn’t want to have dinner with someone she knew nothing about, which left me speechless.
She was extremely popular, but it really made me think—there are all kinds of people out there…
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This is just speculation, but I’m sure some people press a lot of buttons because they want offers.
Still, it shows they’re proactive about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I don’t think anyone would make an offer and then say, “I’m not active right now.” Let’s take it as a good thing.
Some people may also be reading profiles carefully before pressing “You seem wonderful.”
Even if they’re in a regional area, they may have a faint hope that someone might come there on a business trip.
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You can think of it as confirmation that you’re still active, or at the very least, that members have viewed your profile.
Once you’ve been a member for a while, it can be hard to tell whether you still need to wait for offers. Simply knowing that members are accessing your profile is a valuable benefit in itself, and you can certainly choose from among them. They may also contact you quickly and smoothly move things along to the first meeting. If there are enough of them, you may find that’s more than sufficient. I’ve even received a “You’re wonderful” message from a blacklisted CA I had once added to my favorites. There are plenty of people you’d want to favorite, and surprisingly, messages sometimes come from completely unexpected people, too. (I don’t make my profile public anymore.)
Do you take it as good luck, or do you read too much into it? (Or even assume the comments are just copied-and-pasted success stories?)
You can probably guess which of the two is more likely to receive good fortune, right??
So, I hope you’ll join the questioner in sowing seeds of good fortune through genuine papa-katsu.
Do you see it as a field full of people to avoid, or a field of good fortune? That depends entirely on how you envision your future.
The gods only give good fortune to people who are happy to receive it. They’re never fair.
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I don’t have my profile public, so you may tell me not to complicate things（笑）, but I hope this gives you some food for thought.
As everyone has said, I think it’s best to assume that each woman has her own reasons for clicking “Sounds wonderful.” Rather than dismissing those intentions, men should accept them all and then approach the women who seem like the best match for them.
Alternatively, it could be interesting for the man to make the first move.
For example, you could edit your public profile to say, “I’m available to meet in Osaka,” when reaching out to a woman who says she can meet in Tokyo. If she’s someone you find attractive and she responds positively, I think inviting her to Osaka could certainly be an option.
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Some simply say, “You seem lovely,” with no comment, but about half include messages that suggest they actually looked at my profile before reaching out.
I can’t see other men’s profiles, so I can’t compare, but I think mine is fairly detailed. I haven’t posted a photo or listed my annual income, though.
If your profile is already well-written and you’re still receiving generic comments, then perhaps I’m simply lucky.
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SALON doesn’t have a “You’re wonderful♡” feature, so I can’t speak for myself.
But if there’s someone among those who sent you a “You’re wonderful♡” that you’re interested in, couldn’t that be a sign of a connection? The intention behind sending one can only really be known by the person who sent it, and I don’t think receiving one would make anyone feel bad.
Why not take it positively and make an offer to anyone you like? Would that be a problem?
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Even when I send a “You’re lovely,” I hardly ever receive an offer, so I feel like adding a comment is more trouble than it’s worth.
Given how the feature was originally intended to work, it wouldn’t be surprising if some women simply preferred sending “You’re lovely” and nothing more.
Besides, many men don’t even have a profile photo, and their profiles contain very little information. If you think of “You’re lovely” as a way to get someone to view your own profile, you might conclude that comments aren’t necessary after all.
In that sense, she might actually be a very sharp woman. (Either she didn’t give it much thought, or she thought it through carefully.)
Rather than wondering whether she was being careless, I think you should look at her profile and consider what kind of woman she is.
And if you’re interested, you can make her an offer and meet her. But if you’re trying to save on the setting fee, perhaps a dating club wasn’t the right fit for you in the first place.
If someone catches your interest, make an offer right away.
That seems like the best approach.
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