I’m the university student who asked yesterday because I was unsure about joining.
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I’m not sure whether anything besides questions gets posted, but I wanted to write this at least to express my gratitude to the staff and to show my resolve.
My parents cover my university tuition apart from my scholarship, and I’m considering going to graduate school and taking the bar exam. As people around me start earning money as working adults, I feel ashamed of relying so heavily on my parents for tuition. I thought I should save money while I still have the time, but I was rushing into things a little. (I hadn’t even considered that I might be asked where the money came from, so your advice was a great help. I also intend to continue working my regular part-time job.)
I’ve once again realized that, although standards vary from person to person, appearance is important. Since I’m still a teenager and have a lot to learn about the world, I plan to focus on improving myself and building my confidence before coming in for an interview around summer.
I noticed that several people said they wouldn’t offer to someone in her teens. If you don’t mind, could you tell me why?
I’d also appreciate any advice for beginners.
I’ve decided to register with Universe, so I believe what happens from here is up to me. Thank you so much to everyone who took the time to answer.
Do you really think you can get by without going to graduate school?
Study extremely hard to pass the judicial scrivener exam.
Your thinking is too naïve—do you honestly think you’ll pass?
With papa-katsu, could you spread your legs for some creepy old guy… and go through with it?
You barely know what intimacy is like yet. Would you really be okay even with an unskilled older man?
papa-katsu isn’t a place where you only have intimate encounters. You might go golfing or stay overnight with your male supporter, and unless you get along and have things to talk about, neither of you will enjoy it.
Besides, do you really think someone in their teens like you would suit a man of that caliber?
You’re being naïve about a lot of things. For now, focus on your studies.
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You describe yourself as being “in your teens and still inexperienced with the world.”
I’m not saying this applies to everyone, but generally speaking, younger people do tend to be that way more strongly.
I think many men feel that, because younger women have less life experience, they may be less considerate toward their partner than older women.
That said, some men actually like that about them. Everyone is different, and there are men who make offers specifically to students aged 18–22.
You’re still in your teens, so I don’t think you need to force yourself to act like an adult. Even if you do, your level of life experience will still show.
Rather than overthinking it, you might consider the various directions you could take: how to make someone like you as you are now, how to captivate them if being liked isn’t enough, or simply how to stay true to yourself.
It’s fine to work on improving yourself, but I think the best approach is to do everything within your limits and without overexerting yourself.
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I get the impression that you’re much more humble and intelligent than the image I have of teenagers, and that you’re only being modest about your qualities—they’re probably actually quite good!
Not many people can take in lots of different answers and still come to their own conclusion, so I think you’re very thoughtful and have excellent communication skills as well. You also have clear goals. If I were a staff member, I’d recommend you wholeheartedly!
As for my previous answer… girls really shouldn’t worry about that too much(´；ω；｀)
It’s not like everyone is only looking for Fujiko Mine.
I’m just barely standard myself, but I still get offers from time to time. Even as you are now, you could probably qualify for Gold, Platinum, or Black. There also seem to be papa (male supporters) who like helping someone grow, so why not go to an interview at least?(´｡✪ω✪｡ ` )
Even if you were placed in Standard, I think you’d still get offers with a five-star rating.
In my opinion, the most important thing is having the heart to genuinely engage with your partner. Appearance comes second. Personally, relationships with people like that tend to last much longer.
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I believe papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is about supporting earnest girls like you, so I wouldn’t hesitate to make an offer even to someone in her teens.
Seeing young women working hard really touches my heart.
You should definitely join Universe. I’ll look for you using your age and the keyword “bar exam,” and if you’re my type looks-wise, I’d like to make you an offer.
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While you still have the time, you’d be better off studying and passing the preliminary bar exam as soon as possible rather than doing something like that.
I think it would be better to pass the preliminary exam and the bar exam while you’re still in school, without even going to graduate school.
Rather than someone as intelligent as you being at the mercy of men for a little money, look into the various paths to entering the professional world sooner and pursue one of them.
As for people in their teens, I feel like the only ones who could date them are the kind of people who think, “I would’ve been arrested for this just a few months ago, but now I can do it openly.” Though it might be an option if the member is still fairly young, say in their early 30s…
Not that I really know.
Akari
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As for your appearance, rather than going for a nightlife-type look, I think you’ll have an easier time getting offers if you aim for a look that suits you—like a clean-cut, ordinary female college student: black hair, dresses, natural makeup, and so on.
Personally, I like the look of Airi Suzuki or announcer Hironaka.
I also tend to avoid making offers to women in their teens, because the chances of having a bad experience are higher. Of course, there are plenty of good ones, but some may not be fully prepared for papa-katsu—for example, they don’t keep time, are very passive during intimate encounters, or try to cut things short. So it’s true that women in their 20s with some work experience feel more reassuring.
That said, you seem to have the right level of commitment. If you treat your papas politely, work hard, and earn stars on your profile, even papas who usually avoid women in their teens may start making offers. You might receive quite a lot of them.
By the way, your stars increase when you receive lots of positive feedback from papas in the post-meeting surveys. Satisfying them during intimate encounters is the quickest way to boost your rating.
Good luck, and we look forward to welcoming you as a member.
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You seem like a very responsible person.
I’m sure your parents want to support you, so I think you should focus on your studies without worrying about it. In my opinion, that may be the best way to show your appreciation to your parents.
If you’ve decided to register with Universe, I support you. As a responsible teenager like you, I’m sure you’ll receive offers.
You’re still young, so I hope you’ll have lots of different experiences! Enjoy your activities, and keep working hard at school, too!
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If I asked my parents, I think they’d say they’d pay for me rather than have me attend grad school using money earned through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Even at a private university, I looked it up and it’s only about ¥1 million a year, right?
I think the usual reasons people don’t make offers to teenagers are that they look so young that even being seen with a man in his 30s can seem unnatural, they may not have much in common, and conversations can be boring because they have little life experience. Of course, I don’t think that applies to everyone.
Marika
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The “Rules for Using the Question Box” state: “If the administrators determine that a post mainly consists of someone expressing their opinions, the question, the answer, and everything associated with them will be deleted.”
It doesn’t mean that every post phrased as a question will be published. A great many people seem not to understand this.
That aside, I think this is an excellent question, so I’ll answer it:
> I’ve seen several answers saying that they personally wouldn’t make offers to people in their teens. If you don’t mind, could you explain why?
The reason is that I don’t believe minors are suitable partners for an adult relationship (intimate).
I don’t think “adult relationships” are about sex alone.
A note regarding hidden posts:
For example, “Can I crush some old man’s testicles?” is technically a question, but it will be hidden. I have to wonder what part of wording like that is supposed to be a question posted in good faith.
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