Are male members reminded of the rules each time? Whenever I receive an offer, I’m sent reminders via LINE, such as leaving four hours for the first date and information about cancellations the day before or on the day itself.
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Are men given reminders about these things as well? For example, that the first date is generally expected to last around four hours, and that the allowance should be given early in the meeting.
I went on a date with a man who had been a member for quite a long time, but he didn’t seem to know the recommended time limit or anything like that. Other men didn’t seem to know when to give the allowance on the first meeting either.
It’s difficult for women to bring up matters like time and allowance, so it would be a great help if men could be considerate about them.
Wouldn’t it be a good idea to send these reminders to men via LINE every time as well?
Maezawa here with the answers.
> Do you check the rules with male members every time?
We weren’t doing that.
> I went on a date with a man who had been a member for a long time, but he didn’t seem to know the approximate expected duration.
I see.
For quite some time, we’ve explained that the guideline is about four hours total: two hours for dinner plus another two hours afterward.
> The other men didn’t seem to know when to give the allowance for the first meeting.
I wouldn’t think that’s the case, but it’s possible they simply forgot.
That said, as mentioned in this Q&A, there are also people who knowingly ignore the rules and even boast:
“I know the rule about paying transportation expenses upfront, but I’ve never followed it because it feels very uncomfortable.”
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/1273
So if you don’t receive it upfront, I think you should continue giving us feedback stating exactly that. The club tells them to pay it in advance, but we can’t know what’s actually happening unless we receive feedback.
> Wouldn’t it be better to send the rules to the men on LINE every time as well?
Yes, I agree.
I think that’s a good suggestion.
Since we send them to the women every time, it seems reasonable to send them to the men every time too.
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