Do you chat casually on LINE? Do people who do that have fewer men they’re in contact with??
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I have five papas and five boyfriends/friends-with-benefits I keep around, so I always have at least 10 men I’m involved with. For the past year and a half, I’ve consistently had around 10–15 men in my life.
When I first joined the club, I used to exchange long LINE messages with my papas, but lately it’s become such a hassle that I don’t want to message any of the men anymore.
I can’t even reply to my boyfriend on LINE unless I’m in the mood.
With my papas, I leave everything on read except messages about confirming schedules.
Even if you have more than 10 men, do you all make an effort to chat casually with each of them?
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Are there really that many of them? Isn’t it a hassle?
For me, two is the absolute maximum. If I had any more than that, I’d end up giving half-hearted replies at some point, which would be rude to the men.
I think you should either cut down the number of supporters or reduce how often you message them on LINE.
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I just checked LINE. I exchange messages frequently with just under 10 people, but the only ones I really chat casually with are my wife and the women I’m seeing—so maybe three or four people.
The messages are generally short, though occasionally they’re a little longer. I don’t make casual conversation with everyone equally.
If chatting helps keep things smooth with your papa (a male supporter) and isn’t too stressful, then it’s worth doing. But if the other person is fine with things as they are, I think it’s perfectly okay to leave things as they are.
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You should probably move on from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) by now.
I’m the same Kamihikōki who was once heavily criticized for saying people should retire from papa-katsu at 23.
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I’ve never had more than ten arrangements going on at once, but having that many must be quite a lot to manage…
Since my papa (male supporter) has his own schedule too, I try not to message him first too often. I always make sure to reply when he contacts me, confirm our next plans, and thank him after a date.
I think it takes consideration and a bit of effort from both sides to feel comfortable seeing each other, and it probably also depends on the person’s circumstances and lifestyle.
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I chat with the massage therapist and lounge hostess I have monthly arrangements with, but come to think of it, I don’t really chat with the PJ I met through Universe.
The lounge hostess has never once gone home at the time I told her the date would end. She even gets suspicious and asks, “Why aren’t we staying the night together?” so I end up staying over reluctantly. She wants multiple rounds, too.
I wonder if we’re just different species? (That’s my question back to you.)
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I’ve never had a “sex friend,” but when I worked part-time at a lounge and in Ginza, I messaged all kinds of men on LINE.
For the most part, I enjoyed chatting with them, but sometimes keeping the conversation going became exhausting… So in the end, I feel like I only keep in touch with men I really click with.
You don’t have to force yourself.
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> Sounds like you’ve had 10–15 men in your life every day for the past year and a half or so.
> You must be incredibly popular（笑）
> I’m jealous.
I only message the women I’m seeing who taught me how they prefer to use LINE, but basically, we exchange one message each way per day, with very little small talk.
Occasionally, we’ll exchange three messages each way in a day, but it feels more like responding to inquiries. I sometimes ask questions too, and when I do, I always get a reply that same day.
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Basically, we use it to coordinate our schedules and catch up on what’s been going on. I’ll message him on LINE when there’s something important I really want to tell him or ask about.
Marika
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I don’t chat with all of them—only some of the women.
If a woman’s only appeal is sex, things can continue without chatting. But if she has other qualities that attract me, it won’t last without conversation.
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