Ladies, what makes you look at a man and think, “Wow, this guy is such an old man”?
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And guys, do you ever suddenly see yourselves objectively and think, “I’ve really aged…” or “Wow, I look rough…”?
For me, it’s when a man goes on about stories from the old days, lectures me, or brags. Then I think, “This guy is such a relic from the Showa era.”
I also notice it when his teeth are dirty.
The papa (a male supporter) I stayed overnight with yesterday was complaining that young people these days never want to join drinking parties. I almost blurted out, “That’s probably because they don’t want to get blind-drunk with you.” (๑╹ω╹๑ )
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I used to be able to go twice in two hours without a problem, but now it takes me three hours if I try for two rounds, so I can really feel myself slowing down.
My stamina is fine, but my recovery time has gotten longer.
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I’m sure more than half of it is just flattery, but I do take care of my skin and work out, so I feel like I’m putting up a decent fight. The girls I’m seeing compliment me on it, but since my late twenties, I’ve found it harder to lose weight. If I slack off even a little, my skin quickly gets rough, my body starts to sag, and I can feel myself aging.
Fortunately, I can afford to spend more money on myself now than I could in my twenties, so in some ways I feel I look better now than I did back then.
Just like with young people these days, I find conversations with people who complain a lot boring. Whether they’re employees or older customers, I try to avoid meeting them whenever possible.
I don’t think I do it very often, but I don’t mind hearing old stories, lectures, or boasts if they’re interesting and reflect the person’s beliefs or feelings in some way. There’s a lot to learn—and take away—from them.
It can be tiring when someone’s memory is failing and they keeps telling the same stories, but when that happens, I smoothly steer the conversation in another direction and draw out a new topic.
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The firmness of your skin really is completely different…
For both men and women, 20 is the peak, and you start noticing the decline with every five years that pass. The firmness of the chest and upper arms changes dramatically for both sexes.
And as for the age when someone is at their most attractive, it depends on each person’s overall balance. You shouldn’t be worrying about a question like this.
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Hmm… there are a lot of things, but the most obvious ones would be:
・Their eyebrows grow out and look unkempt
・The wrinkles on their hands and neck become noticeable
・The skin on their arms and legs gets thinner
Something like that, I guess. More like a grandpa than an old guy, lol.
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> The papa I stayed over with last night was complaining that young people these days never want to join drinking parties, and I almost blurted out, “Maybe it’s because they just don’t want to get dead drunk with you.” (๑╹ω╹๑)
Haha, lol.
You should’ve said it! lol
I’ve never looked at anyone and thought they were unattractive, but sometimes I do think, “Wow, they’ve really aged,” lol.
When I’m seeing someone, I don’t make offers to anyone else, so as things stand, the relationship may never end. I sometimes wonder if I’ll eventually leave the dating club without ever meeting anyone else, and I have mixed feelings about that—but I’m enjoying the relationship while it lasts.
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When the skin on a man’s face starts sagging and blending into his neck—or, put another way, when his face seems to get larger with age—I feel like that’s what makes someone look like an older guy.
The other day, my papa said he might undergo an anti-aging treatment, so I went with him to the clinic and listened to the explanation. Then I found out it would cost a shocking ¥2.5–3 million…
The treatment itself sounded good, but I thought that price was ridiculous. I asked the doctor and counselor all sorts of questions, like, “What exactly does this cover?” and “A less expensive plan would have the same results, right…?” My papa was delighted and said, “That’s what I like about you.”
Why don’t you go to a clinic with your papa and try something together? He’ll look younger, you’ll get better skin, and it can be fun.
At the very least, a woman who takes an active interest in her papa’s appearance and enjoys it with him seems like she’d be having a lot more fun than someone who only complains about how he looks.
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You’ve been through a lot, question asker~
I’d like to comfort you, but it’s pretty surreal having an older guy comfort you about your complaints and frustrations with older guys, lol. Then again, if I offer to meet a girl so she can comfort me, we’re just going in circles, haha.
Actually, if you and I started dating, that would solve everything—maybe this pointless cycle would finally come to an end?
Anyway, that’s beside the point. Lectures, stories about the good old days, and bragging are annoying regardless of age. But I think complaints may be the worst of all. Let’s both try to watch out for that! lol
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Sometimes, when I look at my body after getting out of the bath or happen to closely inspect my skin, I have thoughts like that.
By the way, do you ever take an objective look at yourself and have moments when you feel ashamed of yourself?
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