“The allowance is ¥50,000 per meeting. I’d like to see you once a week. I’d love to take you out for delicious meals and travel together. I want to give you lots of fun experiences and build a good relationship.”
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This is something random guys making offers often say.
Do they seriously think they can “give” women fun experiences with ¥50,000 per meeting?
I’m not saying ¥50,000 per meeting is bad.
Everyone has their own budget, and some people may be able to offer more but set ¥50,000 as their standard for everyone on Universe.
But do these men who say things like, “I’ll give you a fun relationship,” really not understand that most women don’t sign up because they want fun experiences—they sign up because they want money?
I get the impression that these men tend to be the ones who, even when they say “a delicious meal,” take you somewhere mediocre that costs only a few thousand yen per person; stay at their own place, a cheap business hotel, or a love hotel; insist on taking you on trips that mean sitting side by side in economy class for hours; and message you on LINE every day.
That’s just based on what I’ve heard from other women doing papa-katsu.
So at the first meeting, if I decide someone is just a random guy, I simply tell him, “I’ll contact you once I’ve worked out a date for our next meeting,” then make up an excuse and quietly fade out.
I don’t want him to lash out and lower my rating.
What do you all do to avoid ending up with a strange papa?
And men, what do you keep in mind so that you don’t become a stressful presence for women?
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I think it’s fine as it is. Knowing how to walk away without hurting the other person is important.
That said, I don’t come across many men who want to meet once a week for a pay-per-meeting allowance of 50,000 yen.
I have met men offering 50,000 yen per meeting, but, if anything, many of those papas seemed humble and kept a low profile, saying things like, “The chances of someone like you agreeing to meet someone like me are pretty slim, but would you be willing to give it a shot?” Maybe it was just a coincidence, but I feel that most of them are basically kind people.
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I’m with Fuu on this one!
I completely agree (lol).
Rather than being overly petty about the star rating, I think it would be fine to simply say, “I’m afraid I’ll have to decline dating someone who seems like a nobody.”
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If you have no intention of enjoying the relationship and money is your main concern, just go to a sex service.
Honestly, we don’t need papas who say things like that either—especially men who claim that women are the ones asking for it.
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It may be difficult to avoid them at the offer stage, so why not develop an eye for spotting them during the first dinner?
Also, at my age, no one says things like, “I’ll do ○○ for you.” They usually say things like, “Would you like to go together?” or “Would you like to ○○?” Once they get more comfortable, it becomes, “Let’s ○○.”
If you want to deter them from the offer stage, you could try wearing visibly branded clothes or accessories and giving off the impression that you won’t be swayed by cheap offers. Basically, make it clear that you’re an expensive woman to keep.
Hopefully, you’ll attract only generous (well-paying) papas!!
Marika
Exactly. Not that I’m comparing him to Hononno from the other day, but when my papa’s friends each brought their girlfriends and we all went to Okinawa, he asked, “Would you go with me?” He seemed pretty sure I’d turn him down, so when I said, “Sure~,” he was absolutely delighted.
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You may need to be more humble and stop taking things for granted.
Money isn’t my main reason for doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I do appreciate it when I receive more. So for someone whose primary motivation is money, a high allowance may feel like the norm. Still, I think a relationship where both people can feel comfortable and enjoy themselves is ultimately the better arrangement.
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Please keep your questions concise.
You’re so low-class that all you can do to make money is offer your body, while rambling on with disparaging comments.
Before complaining about others, try evaluating yourself honestly.
Akari
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Isn’t the last paragraph of the question enough?
I try not to impose or come across as pushy, since I personally don’t like people who act that way.
Also, the person asking a question like this seems pretty basic themselves. To avoid ending up with some weird, run-of-the-mill papa (a male supporter), shouldn’t you first stop being a run-of-the-mill papa-katsu girl?
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I think the person asking the question has the right idea.
However, if you’re cute and my type, I might end up making you an offer, which would be awkward, so please write “No background characters” in your profile.
To avoid unnecessary stress, I choose not to date women who think the way you do.
I understand that money is important, but I also want to have an enjoyable relationship with someone I genuinely like.
If it’s just a transactional relationship and the other person gives poor reactions or shows no appreciation, I’ll part ways with them and look for someone else.
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