Tips May 20, 2022 12:52

I’d like to know why men compliment women who aren’t cute or beautiful by saying things like, “You’re cute” or “You’re beautiful.”

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I have a friend who gets complimented by every man she meets for the first time, but to be honest, she can’t exactly be called cute or beautiful.
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What’s considered cute or beautiful changes with the times. Don’t you sometimes look at women who were considered cute or beautiful in the Showa era and feel that their looks seem a little different by today’s standards? The kind of looks you consider cute or beautiful might have changed as well in about 20 years.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
That’s pretty mean. Isn’t it nice that your friend was complimented? Everyone has different tastes, so why are you deciding that your friend isn’t cute? Are you trying to one-up her?? I have a pretty broad range of preferences, so I compliment people often. But if I sense that someone doesn’t like being complimented, I stop. Wouldn’t you rather be complimented than put down? I know I would…
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I’m always happy to receive a compliment, even if it’s just flattery. Some men genuinely mean what they say, while others are simply good at giving compliments. When I was dating my American ex, he complimented me constantly—every single day. For him, it was practically a form of greeting. Try not to worry about it, and perhaps make a habit of looking for the good qualities in the people around you as well. ^^
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I feel like that might be rude to your friend… That’s really none of your business, lol.
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I think it’s probably just about creating a pleasant atmosphere and helping both people feel comfortable—saying things like, “You’re beautiful,” or “You’re cute.” That said, do you really want to know the answer to that? It seems like the kind of question you could figure out with a little thought—or even without thinking much at all. Could it be that you don’t like your friend being complimented? Maybe you’re just jealous of her. Your friend is probably someone men find cute and charming. What women and men consider “cute” can be different, after all.
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I’m going to ask something trivial. I think either he genuinely finds her cute or beautiful, or he’s simply the kind of man who compliments people as a matter of course. Preferences really do vary from person to person. As for why the questioner doesn’t get complimented, I’d say it’s because she isn’t cute enough to be asking a question like this.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Maybe they have beautiful skin, a cute personality or voice, or some other wonderful quality. Life is more enjoyable when you focus on the good in people and treat them that way.
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