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That’s the impression I got from this question.
Have you ever read another respondent’s answer and thought, “It seems like we probably wouldn’t get along”?
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Everyone has different values, so sometimes you may feel like you won’t be a good match—but they might turn out to be lovely once you meet♪
You can’t always tell from messages alone, after all♪
Misato ▶ I think they’ll probably reach out to you! (*'-'*)ﾉ"
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The mailing list has pretty much died out.
Instead, we’ve created a small LINE group among our circle.
I think it would be good for Universe Club’s business, too, if someone nominated a favorite respondent and had them make a reverse offer.
Another option is to leave clues here so people can find you themselves.
“Panicking in a Rush” was active again yesterday.
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I think agreeing on things and really clicking with someone are two different things, so I can’t say there’s anything in particular that makes me feel we don’t click.
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I often find myself thinking, “We really do see things differently.” That applies everywhere, not just here. On the other hand, if every answer reflected the same opinion as mine, I wouldn’t bother answering. I think differing views are what make it worthwhile.
By the way, isn’t the word 五月蝿い fascinating? When you add furigana, each kanji lines up perfectly with one sound—“う・る・さ”—yet it has no other usage. I wonder if anyone has ever named their kid 月花 and read it as “Luka,” or 蝿檻 and read it as “Saori.” Compared with 光宙, read as “Pikachu,” those seem more justifiable based on actual usage... Anyway, I hope someone manages to surpass “X Æ A-12.” Come on, Japan.
Taro
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I don’t think I’ve ever read an answer and thought, “We just don’t see eye to eye.”
I still have a lot to learn, so the answers are educational for me, and I sometimes discover new perspectives and think, “Oh, I never thought of it that way!”
Of course, I also learn things from the questions themselves and think, “So that happens too…”
It’s fun!!
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Since joining the dating club, I’ve had a lot of concerns. I used to read this Q&A regularly, ask everyone questions, and find the answers really helpful.
I especially look forward to reading Mack’s columns, and I’m a fan of his. So to me, all of you are people I look up to.
Even after becoming an answerer myself, I’ve continued learning a lot, and it’s been a great opportunity to look at things from new perspectives. I think people find everyone’s answers helpful because there are so many different opinions and viewpoints(^^)
I believe Mack mentioned before that the answerers sometimes interact with one another. If you don’t mind, would it be possible to invite me as well?
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Mack,
Thank you for explaining everything in such detail. I appreciate your thoughtfulness both last time and this time.
I’ll try asking Maezawa-san about it.
Awawa-san,
Did Awawa-san also take action to help?
I believe Makeo and Early will be willing to cooperate, so I look forward to working with you when the time comes.
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I don’t judge whether I’ll get along with someone based on their answers, but I’ve found that the people I click with—or don’t click with—often fall into one of these two categories:
〇 People who think or act pretty much the same way I do
〇 People who think or act in ways that are completely opposite to mine
It’s surprisingly common.
Hope that helps, haha.
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I’m Papercraft, a man who’s been told I’m “weird” by both my daughter and my wife—and who gets kicked away every night whenever I try to hug my wife.
Club women, on the other hand, are kind.
So are the people who answer questions here—including Makeotoko.
When it comes to answers, I think opposing opinions and different perspectives are essential. Otherwise, we’d end up with nothing but the same biased responses.
That means there are also sides of people you can’t understand from their answers alone.
And whether it’s between men and women, people of the same sex, or even coworkers and friends, sometimes people who are very different actually get along better. So there may be more cases where you think, “Oh, unexpectedly!”
P.S.
One example of where our opinions differ is the recent number of comments saying the “quality” of the women has been declining.
I sometimes wonder if that’s because Makeotoko and Maezawa believe that men offering higher allowances attract more women. After all, if only men offering high allowances are going to join, beautiful women wouldn’t feel the need to put up with it just to participate.
Maybe it’s because women who aren’t particularly beautiful, but are extremely money-hungry, are drawn in by the prospect of such high allowances.
The world is interesting precisely because people have opposing ways of thinking.
I wonder which is more common: women looking for a generous papa, or women looking for a good papa?
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I’ve never met the other people answering, so it’s not really a matter of hitting it off with them or anything.
That said, there are times when I read an answer and think, “This person sees things much the same way I do.”
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