I understand why you might think Black men would offer better terms, but that isn’t necessarily the case.
Even someone at my level has had experiences with Black men, haha.
Also, Black men definitely keep an eye on Platinum women.
If you’re truly an amazing woman, I’m sure you’ll receive offers from Black men who provide generous allowances.
You must be so attractive that offers are pouring in!
Why not be upfront with the staff about the situation you’re struggling with right now? There are options besides upgrading your membership, such as hiding your profile or taking a break, and I’m sure they’ll suggest something that makes things easier for you. I hope you meet someone wonderful♪
The girls I’ve offered who received 20–30 offers in their first month are in that kind of situation.
They can’t manage a second date, and even setting a date for the first offer takes forever.
Fortunately, I’m “Paper Airplane,” so I can fly anywhere, anytime. In the meantime, I end up going on three or four dates with them.
That usually develops into a somewhat special relationship… But once they start receiving that many offers, their allowance quickly goes up—the dinner-only allowance may multiply several times over, and the adult allowance may more than double. At that point, I stop contacting them, figuring we probably won’t see each other again.
Within a few months, she had met pretty much all the men who offered, and ended up surrounded by generous (well-paying) papas. She had undergone a truly glamorous transformation.
It was around then that I thought:
“Hmm? Why is she contacting me? There’s no way I can afford that allowance anymore.”
“Paper Airplane, I don’t need an allowance. I just want you to listen to me.”
When we meet, I basically serve as her stress outlet. Even though her generous papas treat her extremely well, she must still have a fair amount of unconscious stress from it all. She has endless stories about her papas. I listen while thinking that men offering that much will probably move on to someone new within six months or a year.
Of course, I don’t send her home without any allowance, but it’s a very small amount—because it isn’t just several times less; it’s on an entirely different scale.
Rather than asking to be moved up to a higher class, I think it’s better to adjust the allowance while maintaining a good balance.
Men in the higher classes have usually already seen or offered to most of the girls, so moving up doesn’t necessarily come with only benefits.
In that situation, they usually don’t raise her class. Instead, they hide her profile and temporarily stop accepting offers. I know quite a few women who do this.
When her profile is made visible again, the staff may quietly change her class. I think that’s just how class changes work.
Women probably aren’t told what class they’re in, and asking to be moved up likely isn’t looked upon favorably.
You don’t have to push yourself to keep accepting offers.
A wandering poet named Paper Airplane once made a very insightful observation: this isn’t an offer club—it’s a dating club.
