I haven’t received many offers since joining. I’ve been sending “You look great” messages and the like to male members, but I’m curious what women who receive a lot of offers are like.

For women who receive lots of offers, are photos, videos, and the wording in their profiles the most important factors? I was told by the club that age doesn’t matter very much. I completely understand wanting to receive lots of offers, but I think even finding just one person who’s a good match for you would be encouraging. You might want to consult the staff about it. Looking back, I regret not going to a hair salon or buying a new outfit for my profile photos. I also had my photos taken in winter, so I was wearing bulky clothes and weighed a little more than I do now. I’m working hard on strength training so I can have them retaken!

I don’t know whether that’s a lot or a little, but thankfully, I receive around 20–30 “You’re lovely” messages a month. It’s been about a year, and I’ve only made one offer during that time. However, it wasn’t simply because she sent me a “You’re lovely” message. I checked her profile after receiving it and ultimately decided based on whether she was my type. I think that’s probably how most men approach it, since making an offer costs money. As Aya mentioned, I think your only options are to see whether you fit one of those categories or wait until someone who is exactly the questioner’s type comes along. I used dating apps too—and, actually, I’ve started using them again recently because I’m feeling a bit lost—but unlike an escort dating club, they involve mutual matching. (Can offers at escort dating clubs actually be turned down?) More importantly, you can edit your profile photos, so I think you have more opportunities to get matches. Even without a profile photo, some people will agree to meet anyway, like the principle of a sealed magazine section. Very rarely, you might get lucky. Of course, if the photos are edited too heavily, things can get difficult after you meet, but in terms of getting yourself “up to bat,” apps probably offer more opportunities than the passive approach of an escort dating club. There are probably plenty of lousy papas at escort dating clubs too, but apps have even more questionable people, so please be careful not to get caught up with someone strange.

Hmm. I don’t get many offers either, so I’m struggling too, but I think it’s important to use the waiting time to work on things you can do in the meantime. Having beautiful hair, getting cosmetic dental work, and losing weight aren’t things you can change immediately if you suddenly get an offer tomorrow. I try to live with a growth mindset every day, thinking, “I’m ready to go anytime♡” And, of course, there are the apps too (ㆁᴗㆁ✿) I’m not registered with any other dating clubs.

I’m Nana Ayase ♡ Mr. Loser~ Please check your LINE. I’ll be waiting.

- Fair-skinned and beautiful or cute → A refined, wholesome look tends to be popular. Gyaru styles are too niche, so they’re generally a no-go. - Highly educated → There are a lot of papas who like intelligent women. - Having a rare or distinctive profession → Flight attendants are an obvious example, but many papas also like women in more conventional jobs, such as civil servants or teachers. - A great figure (either curvy or petite) → Some papas prefer women with larger busts, while others like petite, slender women, so you may appeal strongly to one type or the other. - Feminine skills or talents → For example, “I have a chef’s license and I’m good at cooking, so once we get to know each other, I’d love to cook for you at home♡” Something like that. That said, while working at a beauty salon may sound feminine, some papas may suspect you’re involved in the adult entertainment industry, so it’s best not to mention it. Being good at nail art is also often seen as feminine, but papas generally don’t understand the appeal of nails, so it doesn’t make much of an impression. I think these are the kinds of things that make you more likely to receive offers. If you fit even one of them, I don’t think you’ll get zero offers.

Women who receive a lot of offers are the ones many men want to date. The most obvious traits are being beautiful or having a large bust. On the other hand, I’ve heard that about half of the women who sign up don’t receive a single offer for six months. Whether you get an offer or not is largely a matter of luck and timing, so why not try signing up for an app?