Are there people here who don’t have adult relationships (intimate)?
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I have a low-paying day job with no bonus and no raises.
I want more money,
but I’m extremely sensitive to alcohol, so working in nightlife isn’t an option, and I’m afraid of being viewed sexually in the adult entertainment industry…
Even at a dating club, is it unrealistic to hope for much when I’m not particularly attractive and have poor communication skills?
I’m 25, not particularly attractive, have no experience dating anyone, and am a virgin.
Should I just give up?
Everyone seems to have some pretty harsh opinions…
I can’t really say without knowing what you look like or your figure, but there are men who are happy to go on dinner dates. If that’s what you’re looking for, register as Type A. Try not to put yourself down too much—there may be men who choose you. Why not go to an interview and register first, then decide what to do? You’re still young, and you’ll gain experience and grow through all kinds of things.
If you register with Universe while continuing to work as well, you may start seeing things from a different perspective and have some wonderful encounters.
By the way, I have someone I meet without an adult relationship (intimate). There are all kinds of men out there.
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You should probably give up on that idea.
Your lack of common sense really comes through in your writing. Don’t you think that if “I’m unattractive, unintelligent, and lacking in courage, but I want money” were enough, no one would have a hard time?
At the very least, you should work on one of these: your appearance, your intelligence, or your courage. Money doesn’t come to people who make no effort. If it did, nobody would struggle.
I know that was harsh, but if you start papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you’ll be taken advantage of. You probably won’t save any money and will simply end up being used for someone else’s convenience. For your own sake, I recommend taking a more honest, steady path.
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Apparently, registering as Type D means you’re open to dating even without an allowance (*'ᵕ'*)☆
If you’ve stayed a virgin until 25, taking that first step must feel scary, right?
Hmm, it’s a tough decision.
I think your only option is to go to the interview and see how it feels!
Maybe she’s just being modest and is actually very attractive (*`･ω･)ゞ
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I might go to Yoshinoya tomorrow for an oyakodon.
If you can grit your teeth and get through it just once, I think you could sell your virginity for ¥500,000.
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Seeing someone for dinner only is an option, but the allowance is usually around ¥10,000, so considering the time commitment, it’s not particularly cost-effective.
Also, what can you offer the man you’re seeing?
If you’re not especially attractive, struggle socially, and aren’t fun to talk to, I don’t see how being with you would be a plus for him.
I’m not Taro, but why not get a regular part-time job...?
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Honestly, I think you’d make more money working one shift a week at Yoshinoya.
In central Tokyo, the hourly wage is around ¥1,100. Late-night shifts pay ¥1,400. Work eight hours and you’ll make just under ¥10,000.
In other words, you’re guaranteed ¥10,000 every week. You don’t have to wait around for offers that may never come, and no one you meet will look at you that way.
Plus, if you get hungry, you can eat anything on the menu for 30% of the regular price. A regular beef bowl comes to just ¥128, tax included. Isn’t that amazing? It might even be cheaper than buying a bottle of Pocari Sweat at a convenience store.
You don’t need to look like Nicole Fujita or anything. And now that the “drugging pure young girls with beef bowls” guy has retired, you’re safe♪
The grass is always greener on the other side, but keep moving forward on your own path without hesitation!
Taro
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Unfortunately, you’re probably better off not signing up.
Men register here because they want to meet women they find attractive, and sexual appeal makes up a significant part of that attraction.
So, I don’t think dating, hostess work, or the sex industry would be a good fit for you. If you need money, cut your expenses as much as possible and save. If you’re truly determined, you can save even on a low income.
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They do exist, but they’re very rare. I get the feeling that the few who manage to make it work have something special to offer.
Even at a dating club, you’ll probably be viewed in a sexual way. I think you’d be better off avoiding it.
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