I forgot my papa’s birthday present and hadn’t told him I’d bring it next time, so he said, “Drink my semen as my birthday present.” Why would he say something like that?

From a man’s perspective, what he wants is to feel special. And that feeling may come from something you would do for your boyfriend but wouldn’t do for your papa. So if you did the thing he asked for, he might feel that you had done for him something you normally only do for your boyfriend. It wouldn’t be strange for him to see that as a special gift. That’s just one example, though. You could also have turned him down with something like: “I’m allergic to alcohol, so I can’t drink, but I’d be happy to do ___.” The blank could be filled with anything. Some men might even be happy if you said, “Let’s go out to eat without me wearing underwear.” Or: “I don’t like using toys, but I’ll make an exception today. Let’s go buy one together now.” I don’t know what this man was hoping for, but men are likely to be happy when you agree to something you would normally turn down. So I think it would have been fine to talk about giving him that kind of gift instead. I actually wonder why you’re so focused on giving him a physical item. What matters is the feeling behind it. Sometimes an act can make someone happier than a material gift. > I told him I already had it prepared and would bring it next time, but would it be awkward to give it to him after his birthday has already passed? I don’t think he’d be uncomfortable because his birthday had passed. I think it’s because there wasn’t anything in particular he wanted. You may want to think again about why you’re giving him a gift in the first place. Isn’t it to make him happy? Of course, if you’ve prepared something you know for certain he wants, then I don’t think there’s any problem.

Generally, papas don’t expect presents, so you really don’t need to overthink it. I’m not sure why he would tell a woman from the club to “drink,” but when it’s a girlfriend, she may do it on her own at first, and even during the newlywed phase. So from a man’s perspective, it’s not that he wouldn’t appreciate it. But for a man to ask her to “drink” is just way too creepy.

I think he believed there was a certain bond between you as papa and companion, so he was hurt when you forgot his birthday present. Perhaps he made unusual comments or unreasonable requests to compensate for those feelings. You can always give him the present next time.

Maybe he was just joking, or maybe he really wants you to try a play involving swallowing semen (*^^*) I can’t tell which it is without knowing what kind of guy he usually is… If you’re thinking, “I’d be totally fine swallowing it♪,” then you could do that for him. But if you’re not comfortable, just say, “Sorry, I can’t” (∩´﹏`∩) As for the present, you simply forgot to give it to him, so I think it’d be fine to give it to him next time♪