I’m the person who had Tinder even though I had a boyfriend and met another man (I almost cheated). Thank you for your answers!

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Since then, my boyfriend hasn’t said anything to me, so I don’t think I was reported or anything like that. Still, it made me realize once again that I want to cherish him. However, he may have some emotionally abusive tendencies—he doesn’t value the people around me and doesn’t listen to me—which also gave me a reason to reconsider whether I should really stay with him. The person I met through the app seemed to genuinely want to be in a relationship with me. Even though I was the one who turned him down, I still felt heartbroken. On the other hand, it also gave me confidence that there may still be people besides my boyfriend who could fall for me. I learned a lot from this experience. There’s still a chance that I could be reported and my boyfriend could find out that I had the app, causing a serious problem, so I can’t exactly say this with complete confidence, but… Thank you as always for listening to my concerns about love and relationships! I look forward to continuing to read your posts.

Answer 1

His emotionally abusive tendencies are concerning… I don’t know what to say about that. If you still want to stay with him, then of course it’s your choice, but I couldn’t put up with it. It also means you can consider a new path, knowing that there are other people who could come to like you. Maybe this was a good opportunity to take another look at your relationship with him. I hope you can be happy!

Answer 2

Cheerful Awawa-san, Tinder has a reputation for being mainly for hookups. I once dated a woman who told me that her fiancé had cheated on her through Tinder shortly before they got married. By the way, if you’re only putting up with things at the level of dating a boyfriend, I don’t think that will lead to marriage. After all, marriage means living with someone else, so a certain amount of compromise is necessary...

Answer 3

If you’re not meeting anyone through a dating club, I think it’s fine to try Tinder or other sites instead. Just remember that you’re responsible for your own choices, so don’t say, “I only did it because someone told me to on this Q&A site.” It’s still riskier than using a dating club. There’s no one you’ll like 100%, so you have to compromise somewhere, right? Please be more careful in your relationships from now on.

Answer 4

You can actually meet people on Tinder, huh (๑>◡<๑) I don’t use it myself. If you’ve figured out how you feel, maybe that’s a good thing〜 Wishing you happiness ( ˊᵕˋ ) → Dai Really? I opened Tinder and found that I’d been banned… I wonder if I did something years ago?

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