I was told that people who have relationships with random men do so because they weren’t loved by their parents.
That person also said that people who have fallen off the conventional path do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
To the Universe members: Were you not loved by your parents?
I was raised with an abundance of love,
so from now on, I want to repay my parents financially.
I believe I was raised with love.
I didn’t realize it when I was living with my parents, but as I entered the workforce and more of my friends started having children, I began thinking about all sorts of things—and eventually came to this realization.
Who decided that we have to stay on the rails? What kind of “common sense” is that? If happiness were guaranteed at the end of the track, maybe it would be worth following. But most of the time, you can’t see what lies ahead, so I think it’s more fun to lay your own tracks!
You only get one life.
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As an aside…
I’ve always preferred older men. Even when I was in middle school, I had a crush on my club coach, who was in his late forties at the time.
I wasn’t raised by a single mother, and my parents had a happy marriage. I also received plenty of love from my father, so I still have no idea why. It remains a mystery even to me.
Maybe this, too, is considered being off the rails of what’s “normal.”
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I’m Misei, a female member.
I’m also close with my parents and siblings, and I was raised with love and care.
But there were things I couldn’t find fulfillment in, and times when life felt painful and difficult, so I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Life has its good times and its bad times.
I think you should do whatever feels right for you.
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What “track” are you talking about? lol
It’s not that simple—everyone has their own circumstances and reasons.
You hide behind a sense of righteousness, say things that sound “normal,” and anonymously bash people who have nothing to do with you.
You must be lonely. Don’t you feel empty?
I don’t understand why someone who’s supposedly still on the “right track” would come here—a place for people who’ve stepped off it—and even go out of their way to share their opinion.
Are you actually really interested?
Or do you just not have the courage to try papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
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I believe I was raised with a lot of love from my parents.
I’m nothing but grateful, and I love my family dearly!
I don’t think the love I received from my parents has anything to do with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
In my case, I think it’s probably because I’m naturally very curious.
I’ve even suddenly decided to go study abroad before.
I’m the type of person who tries something if I get the idea in my head!
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> People who’ve fallen off the beaten path do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Oh, really? Allowance-based dating isn’t outside the rules, is it?
Am I the only one who thinks relationships through a dating club are a kind of contract, and therefore not infidelity?
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I was doted on more than you could imagine, and my father’s younger employees also adored me, always saying what a sweet girl I was.
Now that I’m no longer surrounded by so much affection, I feel incredibly lonely on my own.
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Going off the beaten path isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
People who start their own companies or make it big in the entertainment industry have stepped off the conventional path, right?
Once you leave that path, you have to make all your own decisions and take responsibility for the consequences when something goes wrong.
Staying on the conventional path is easier, but you won’t be able to make a huge amount of money that way.
Women who save 10 million yen by their twenties through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) have managed to do so by stepping off that conventional path.
Stepping off the conventional path has nothing to do with whether or not you received love from your parents.
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Who told you that? What a horrible person!
I grew up surrounded by my parents, younger sister, grandparents, great-grandfather, and so many pets—cats, dogs, hamsters, squirrels, rabbits, turtles, tropical fish… It was practically a small zoo, and my family was incredibly loving.
Parents might be sad to find out their child is doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I don’t think dating clubs are inherently bad.
You don’t have to take comments like “papa-katsu means you weren’t loved” to heart. ⸜(* ॑꒳ ॑* )⸝
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