I’m someone who loves to talk, but when you meet the same person every week, the age gap and lack of shared topics inevitably lead to more silence. My partner isn’t much of a talker either, so I have a feeling he may be getting bored with me soon.
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For those of you in similar arrangements, do you feel like you and your partner never run out of things to talk about?
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I struggled with the same thing.
I tried taking an interest in my papa’s hobbies and asking how things had progressed with topics we’d discussed last time. After experimenting with different approaches, I managed to solve the problem!
These days, my papa even asks me lots of questions about my hobbies too (lol).
Rather than giving up because you have nothing in common to talk about, it’s best to create common ground yourself♪
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I feel like it’s hard to keep things going unless both people genuinely want to make the other person happy.
For example, if conversation alone doesn’t really spark, creating shared memories through things like traveling together can be one option.
You could also try taking an actual interest in your partner’s hobbies and doing them yourself…
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I feel like things naturally last longer with a papa who never runs out of things to talk about. I see my current papas once or twice a week—up to seven times a week when we’re especially busy—and we genuinely never run out of topics. I could honestly see them every day.
That said, whether someone gets bored or not probably has less to do with conversational compatibility and more to do with whether both people are drawn to the other person’s depth and personality, along with their physical chemistry. You could also say it comes down to how well you’re able to show your inner qualities.
I don’t think that’s something you can fix with a few superficial conversation techniques…
On the other hand, there may well be men who are captivated by your personality and can continue seeing you without getting bored. So I think it’s best to take things at your own pace and not force yourself.
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Girls who don’t have any other papa (and therefore don’t have to worry about mixing up who they talked about what with) seem to have an endless supply of things to talk about, just sharing what’s been happening in their daily lives one thing after another.
If you have multiple papas, you’re fine as you are—you don’t need to force yourself to come up with conversation topics.
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