How Long Is the First Date (Including an Adult Relationship)?
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How long do your first dates usually last?
The club says four hours, but I feel like they generally last around five to six hours. Occasionally, someone will say we should wrap things up after about four hours as stipulated, but that’s uncommon, so I get nervous when I meet someone during the day and already have plans that evening. Still, I feel like rushing things too much would leave a bad impression, so I stay until the last possible moment, and my taxi fare ends up piling up 😭
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Is this your first time?
If it’s a short one, it might be about 40 minutes on the app (just doing that), while a longer one could last around 12 hours, I guess...
Mack-san’s “Feeling safe is the ultimate foreplay” ◀ I absolutely love it!
That might be my favorite phrase of the first half of the year!
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I’m Misato, a female member.
I don’t have an adult relationship (intimate) from the very first meeting, but even for dinner-only dates, I often end up accompanying them to a bar afterward, so they usually last more than four hours.
If things progress to an adult relationship (intimate), it means dinner plus a hotel, so in my case I generally expect it to take around five hours. Some men make reservations at nice restaurants and invite me to a hotel after we’ve had a full-course meal, but when I’m too full, I lose the desire to do anything…
So on days that include an adult relationship (intimate), a light meal—eating something quickly and finishing in about four hours—might be ideal for me.
Mac’s plan sounds good.
That said, I do go on all-day dates with papas I’m close to. When making plans, I let them know roughly what time I’d like to be home.
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No matter how well we hit it off or how compatible we are, I always wrap things up within four hours. I feel like keeping it to around that length makes us both more eager to meet again.
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It’ll probably be around four hours, so I’d head home around then. You’ll both likely be nervous, and the first day can be exhausting, so it’s a good idea to start steering the conversation toward wrapping things up.
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About three hours, I’d say.
I hate drawn-out multi-course meals, so sometimes the whole thing is over in under two and a half hours.
I wonder what people do for six hours. I don’t have the energy for three rounds.
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The first meeting is important, so it depends on how well things are going and how the woman responds.
When she says, “Time flies, doesn’t it?” the dates tend to continue one after another, and before she knows it, half a day—or nearly a full day—has often passed. (For men, time doesn’t feel like it’s passing quickly because they have to plan where to go and what to do next. Hearing her say, “Wow, is it already this late? Time really flies!” is a wonderful moment that lets them breathe a sigh of relief.)
On average, it’s about five to six hours, with the range being roughly two to three hours up to 12 hours.
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Basically, if a girl already has plans afterward on the first day, I assume she’s pretty accustomed to the club—or probably very money-minded.
If you’re hoping to build a good relationship, it’s better for both parties not to make plans afterward, even if the date itself is short.
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I feel that going over four hours can leave a bad impression, so I try to keep first meetings to four hours or less.
If you’re asking what’s typical, three and a half to four hours is probably the most common.
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