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May 10, 2022 00:27
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I understand wanting to meet someone who’s good at blowjobs, but there really aren’t any telltale signs.
If you could tell someone’s sexual skills from their personality or appearance, life would be easy.
But wouldn’t it actually be scary if there were some obvious features?
Like, “She has big ears, so she must be bad at foreplay,” or “She has a big nose, so she must be a slow finisher” (lol). There’s no way you can know that.
It also comes down to personal preference, right? Some people like fast blowjobs, while Fuu prefers them soft, slow, and lingering.
Other
I’m Tsubaki, and every man I’ve been involved with has told me I’m good at it.
(Though maybe they were just being polite, haha.)
It’d be amazing if you could tell just by looking, wouldn’t it? If you have the courage, conversational skills, and financial means, the quickest way is probably to ask, “Are you good at it?” (lol)
Otherwise, as others have said, you’re probably better off leaving it to a current professional.
If you’re okay with a long shot, feel free to make me an offer. I’m Type B, so I prefer to get to know someone through several dates first—but if you’re a wonderful person, I’d be happy to make you feel special ♡
Other
It’d be amazing if you could tell just by looking at someone’s appearance—like being able to tell whether a woman walking down the street is good or bad at giving oral (lol).
But really, don’t men prefer women who look demure but are secretly kinky, or who are good at that kind of thing?
The classic type that gets popular at dating clubs is the demure, classy-looking woman, right? lol
Marika
Other
I don’t think you can tell from someone’s appearance or personality (⑅•ᴗ•⑅)◜..°♡
I also tone down my sexiness when I first meet someone and try to act modest (or at least I think I do) (lol).
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> Are there any common traits among girls like that, such as personality or appearance?
Not really.
It’s something you only understand—or are surprised by—after experiencing it yourself. I don’t think there’s much you can know in advance.
Other
Aren’t you formerly or currently working in the adult entertainment industry?
I learned almost everything back when I was having an affair, so I know the basics.
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Other
I’m Misato, a female member.
At the time, the person I was dating taught me some techniques, saying, “This feels good if you do it this way.” Everyone has different preferences, so I’m sure some people are naturally good from the start, but why not develop your skills together?
This is something I heard from a male friend, but he said that women who stay with one partner for a long time tend to get better at fellatio. Apparently, when you do it repeatedly with the same person, you both come up with creative ways to improve.
Other
It’s the little octopus-shaped sausage you find in a packed lunch!!
No doubt about it!!
Taro
Other
I can’t speak to appearance… though I don’t think that really matters. Still, I wonder if people with a strong sense of curiosity tend to improve more easily. It may also come down to paying close attention to your partner’s reactions.
I’m not very confident myself, and I don’t think I’m particularly skilled, but I’m always happy when I can make my partner feel good.
Why not help the person learn to please you in the way you like? Wouldn’t that make her the best partner for giving you the kind of attention you enjoy most?
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If a man’s technique is amazing, any woman would become skilled too.
Whether it’s at a dating club or with a lover, she’d want it so badly that she’d pounce on him without him even asking. If she couldn’t hold back and, with both of them incredibly aroused, she wanted to put it in, then there’d be no need for oral—but…