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May 5, 2022 20:34
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Should I start eating really quickly too?
I have a friend who eats extremely slowly, and sometimes watching her makes me feel frustrated because she takes so long. I’m worried that my papas might feel the same way about me.
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Other
If you’d like to continue seeing a plus-size papa (a male supporter) who eats quickly, I think it would be best to mention it to him once, as Aya suggested.
But if it’s causing you stress in the first place, you may be better off looking for another papa (a male supporter).
Other
Rather than eating, it’s more like they’re drinking it? lol
If I get the feeling they’re eager to move on to an adult relationship (intimate), I’ll speed things up a bit. But when I try to eat too quickly, I’d say about 90% of them tell me, “You can take your time—it’s okay” (*^^*)
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think you should just eat at your own pace.
Eating too quickly is one of the causes of obesity.
If you haven’t finished eating, he’ll probably just order something else.
Other
That man probably finishes eating before anyone else, no matter who he’s dining with, so I don’t think you need to worry.
You could try asking him, “Do I eat slowly? I’m trying my best to keep up,” and I’m sure he’ll tell you not to worry about it.
He’s probably aware that he eats quickly himself.
Marika
Other
Eating too quickly can make people question your upbringing, so it’s best to stop. It also looks vulgar, doesn’t it? Not a good idea.
If you eat extremely slowly, people may want to tell you to hurry up, but as long as you eat at a normal pace, no one will think anything of it.
Other
You shouldn’t rush your eating to keep up with a man. Eating too quickly can make you gain weight (lol).
With his fuller build, I don’t think he’s worried about such a small thing.
Other
How about telling the papa himself the same thing and apologizing? He might not be bothered by it that much.
I also get carried away chatting and end up stopping to eat, but my papa just laughs and gently says, “Come on, eat up.” A lot of them probably don’t mind as much as you’d think.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Didn't he say something like, “It’s fine, take your time eating”?
If you were extremely slow, I can’t say how he might have felt, but if you were eating at a fairly normal pace, I think that papa (a male supporter) is probably aware that he eats quickly himself and wasn’t bothered by it.
During a meal, conversation is more important than whether you eat quickly or slowly, so I hope you won’t lose sight of what really matters.