Tips May 5, 2022 20:34

My papa eats incredibly fast. I have two overweight papas, and both of them eat unbelievably quickly. I mean, they practically inhale their food. I eat at about the same pace as my other papas, so it’s not like I’m particularly slow.

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Should I start eating really quickly too? I have a friend who eats extremely slowly, and sometimes watching her makes me feel frustrated because she takes so long. I’m worried that my papas might feel the same way about me.
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If you’d like to continue seeing a plus-size papa (a male supporter) who eats quickly, I think it would be best to mention it to him once, as Aya suggested. But if it’s causing you stress in the first place, you may be better off looking for another papa (a male supporter).
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Rather than eating, it’s more like they’re drinking it? lol If I get the feeling they’re eager to move on to an adult relationship (intimate), I’ll speed things up a bit. But when I try to eat too quickly, I’d say about 90% of them tell me, “You can take your time—it’s okay” (*^^*)
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I think you should just eat at your own pace. Eating too quickly is one of the causes of obesity. If you haven’t finished eating, he’ll probably just order something else.
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That man probably finishes eating before anyone else, no matter who he’s dining with, so I don’t think you need to worry. You could try asking him, “Do I eat slowly? I’m trying my best to keep up,” and I’m sure he’ll tell you not to worry about it. He’s probably aware that he eats quickly himself. Marika
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Eating too quickly can make people question your upbringing, so it’s best to stop. It also looks vulgar, doesn’t it? Not a good idea. If you eat extremely slowly, people may want to tell you to hurry up, but as long as you eat at a normal pace, no one will think anything of it.
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You shouldn’t rush your eating to keep up with a man. Eating too quickly can make you gain weight (lol). With his fuller build, I don’t think he’s worried about such a small thing.
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How about telling the papa himself the same thing and apologizing? He might not be bothered by it that much. I also get carried away chatting and end up stopping to eat, but my papa just laughs and gently says, “Come on, eat up.” A lot of them probably don’t mind as much as you’d think.
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Didn't he say something like, “It’s fine, take your time eating”? If you were extremely slow, I can’t say how he might have felt, but if you were eating at a fairly normal pace, I think that papa (a male supporter) is probably aware that he eats quickly himself and wasn’t bothered by it. During a meal, conversation is more important than whether you eat quickly or slowly, so I hope you won’t lose sight of what really matters.
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