I have plans with my papa this weekend, but I’m not really in the mood. If possible, I’d like to use my period as an excuse so I don’t have an adult relationship (intimate).
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The problem is, my papa seems to have a rough idea of my cycle, so would he suspect I’m lying if I used my period as the reason?
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I think you should let him know by the day before that you’re not feeling well.
Wouldn’t trying to get paid for dinner only (no intimacy) leave a bad impression?
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If you don’t like it, please quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
You’re being inconsiderate to your papa (a male supporter).
And let him know as soon as possible if you can’t make it.
Waiting until the last minute is seriously inconvenient.
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I’ve had several experiences where I told my papa on the day and he seemed somewhat unhappy, so I recommend letting him know in advance—it’s better for both of you.
Rather than simply canceling by saying, “My period came early…,” try suggesting an alternative, like, “Let’s do 〇〇 instead!” Showing that you’re not feeling well but still want to enjoy the date may help keep your papa from taking it badly.
(A movie, café, or anything else is fine.)
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I think Aya’s approach is a good one.
That way, the papa (male supporter) can choose whether to meet just for dinner or reschedule, so depending on the person, it may not leave a bad impression.
In that situation, I would meet for dinner only.
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You could try telling your papa (a male supporter) in advance that your period came early. Since he has a choice too, he may appreciate knowing ahead of time rather than being told suddenly on the day.
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You don’t have to force yourself… You should probably end things.
It’s enough to be with someone you genuinely want to go places and have fun with.
When you meet, just let things unfold naturally based on how you’re feeling that day—whether you say, “My period just started,” or either of you asks, “Want to go to a hotel?” That’s closer to a normal relationship.
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You could say you’re having unusual bleeding.
There’s no point in forcing yourself to meet if it won’t be enjoyable for you...
Your papa (a male supporter) might also sense that you’re not having a good time.
Whatever kind of relationship this is, make sure it’s enjoyable and beneficial for both of you.
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Would saying, “I’m not feeling well,” without mentioning my period be unacceptable?
If he says, “Let me see,” he’ll find out it was a lie anyway. I feel like that would affect our relationship down the line, so I’d probably be honest.
I’d say something like, “A lot has been going on at work, and I really don’t feel up to it…”
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