How do you all feel about your papas, and how do you think they feel about you?
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There were no vaccine side effects, and we both had a great time. That night, the girl told me she sees me as her guardian angel, and that even if she had a boyfriend, if I were transferred away for work or otherwise no longer around, she’d probably go back to her parents’ home because she’d have no reason to stay in this town. When I replied, “That’s some top-tier sweet talk,” she said, “Let me borrow your arm for a second,” then bit down really hard. Looking at the distinct bite mark, she laughed and said, “That’s an intense hickey. You’re pretty possessive!”
I’m heading to Kyushu tomorrow.
I’m coming back covered in bite marks, lol.
Sorry for bragging about how lovey-dovey we are!
They probably think I’ll never leave them, that I’m completely smitten with them, and that I’m genuinely kind.
I understand that the club women feel reassured that I’m not going to leave, relax around me, and lose track of time. But there’s no way to know for sure whether they actually like me. At most, I can tell they appreciate our physical compatibility…
Yesterday, I went on a yakiniku date with a woman who had made a reverse offer, cooked the meat for her, and took care of her. On the way home, she warned me, “I’d be mad if you made an offer to someone new.” It’s already been a year since I stopped making new offers…
I’m simply grateful to the women who make me feel no need to seek anyone new.
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Travel sounds wonderful—I’m so jealous（笑）
As for me, I guess I’d say:
“Well, this is probably just how it is,” maybe?
We’ve been seeing each other for four years now, and things are actually better now than they were in the beginning（笑）
Maybe it’s because there’s such a big age gap between us?
We’re not joined at the hip, but we’re not distant either.
Neither of us is too demanding or too casual.
I guess we really do have a relationship that works conveniently for both of us.
That’s one of the good things about an allowance-based relationship.
P.S.
Paper Airplane,
> It’s been a whole year since I stopped making new offers…
Amazing, amazing! You did it（笑）
Once the relationship settles down and you build trust, you no longer feel the need to make new offers（笑）
Of course, new women keep registering with the club one after another, and I think, “Oh, she seems nice,” but I just leave them on standby in my favorites.
I currently have six favorites. Some disappear, though, so sometimes I wonder if there’s even any point in keeping them registered（笑）
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I really love my papa (a male supporter), and he knows how I feel.
It’s an adult relationship (intimate) that neither of us can do anything about.
Maybe it’s because it’s so bittersweet, but our intimacy feels even more passionate.
Marika
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You’re lucky you’re okay with being bitten, questioner.
If I were bitten, I’d end things.
I’d have to come up with an excuse like, “I can’t go home today because I was bitten” (what a scene).
“While drinking, I got into a fight and a man bit me.”
Suárez, lol.
My situation is similar to Early’s.
Spring is the season for goodbyes, after all.
The woman I’ve been seeing for a fairly long time—two years—is starting to feel a little off.
I imagine she’s probably found a boyfriend she seriously wants to marry. Her heart doesn’t seem to be in it anymore.
It would be fine if she were the type who could keep things transactional, but she has a good personality and is very straightforward, so I suppose that would be difficult for her.
I feel like it might be best for me to be the one to end things.
I’ve started looking for my next partner, but meeting someone better than her will be incredibly difficult.
For the time being, I’ll contribute lots of offers to the clubs.
Even if someone cared about me too much and became possessive, that would be a problem because this is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). But at the same time, I can’t enjoy an adult relationship (intimate) if she’s mentally somewhere else.
It’s hard to find someone whose sense of comfortable distance matches your own.
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My ex bit me over and over again.
He could leave marks on my back, upper arms, sides, and stomach.
But I guess he never really loved me. What a horrible thing to do.
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I’m jealous.
I recently broke things off with a girl I’d been seeing for quite a while. She told me, “I’d feel bad for my boyfriend if we continued, and there’s no future with you, Early.”
This has happened a few times before, so I’m wondering if I should rethink the way I approach these relationships.
papa-katsu is difficult.
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It’s great to hear that you two are so lovey-dovey.
Come to think of it, I’ve also said, “If my papa ever leaves me, I’ll move back in with my parents.”
Papas in papa-katsu generally don’t want to be deceived by women, so I think it’s fine to make your expressions of affection even more intense than you would with a boyfriend in order to earn their trust. (Of course, I adjust that depending on the other person’s reaction.) That woman seems to understand it too.
Wishing you both continued happiness.
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