When meeting for an adult relationship at a city hotel rather than a love hotel, do male members bring condoms?
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If I want us to use protection, I worry that there might not be any once we get to the room, so I’m wondering whether I should mention it beforehand.
What do you all do?
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When you’re meeting someone who might not bring one—whether it’s their first time, they deliberately chose not to, or they’re just absentminded—I think it’s best to bring one yourself.
If some older guy asks why you’re carrying something like that around, you could just say, “In my generation, it’s normal for women to carry one too.” If he comments on your age, he’ll probably keep quiet after that.
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Well, I do think men should generally provide them. But shouldn’t women carry some too?
When my daughter got a boyfriend, I gave her some condoms—through my wife, of course.
The other day, I ran into a famous male performer at a bar. Apparently, he prefers 0.3 mm condoms. Thinner isn’t necessarily better, I guess.
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Whenever there’s a possibility I might have sex with a woman, I always bring Sagami’s 0.01 mm condoms.
Even if we go to a love hotel, I don’t use the condoms provided there.
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Please bring your own 0.01 condoms in both M and L sizes.
If you leave it up to him, you’ll be the one who regrets it.
If he asks why you have them, tell him, “Ayase Nana from the Q&A site told me to bring them.”
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I bring my own condoms.
A lot of papas probably carry condoms too. There are papas who want to manage their own risks and take responsibility.
That said, not every papa carries condoms, so I think it would be best for you to either bring your own or be prepared to refuse if he asks to go without one.
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I think there are men who deliberately don’t bring condoms and then act like, “Well, we don’t have any, so it can’t be helped.”
They’re not gentlemen—they’re cowardly. I don’t think you should get involved with men like that.
That said, if you clearly tell him, “I can’t do it without a condom,” and he’s willing to go buy some, or is willing to call it a night without doing anything, then he may be okay.
That was a long preface, but—
Apparently, some men dislike it when a woman brings condoms because it makes her seem too experienced. Even so, you need to be prepared to protect yourself.
So I think you should bring some with you—perhaps 0.02 mm or 0.01 mm ones, since some men won’t agree unless they’re thin.
However, this should be a last resort.
If he hasn’t brought any, won’t go buy them, and you’re worried he may proceed without protection, you could say something like:
“Oh, come to think of it, I remember reading in a Q&A that it’s a good idea to carry condoms. I might have some that I bought back then…”
Then look for them and take one out as if you just happened to have one.
I feel that’s probably the best way to handle it.
> If I want him to use protection, I worry that I should say so beforehand, since there may not be any available once we get to the room.
When you’re invited to have an adult relationship (intimate)—for example, when he asks, “Can you go somewhere after this?”—I think it’s best to discuss both the allowance and your expectation that he use a condom at that point.
Then, once you’ve both agreed and entered the room, if there are no condoms, you can say:
“I’m not comfortable without a condom, so I’m going to go home today. Please invite me again next time.”
You should be able to say at least that much.
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I always carry them with me.
If I run out, I hurry to buy more before the date.
If you get to the room and there aren’t any available, I don’t think it’s the woman’s responsibility to provide them.
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I generally don’t go to love hotels, so I bring them myself.
Obviously, I use protection, and depending on the woman’s needs, I may also provide money for birth control separately from her allowance.
If you go to a city hotel and she doesn’t have condoms, I think it’s perfectly fine to part ways. No matter how good the escorting has been up to that point, she’s either deliberately doing it or is incredibly careless.
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