Starting today, I’m going on a four-day, three-night trip to Ishigaki Island with my divorced papa (a male supporter). I’m truly miserable and feel like dying.
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Traveling for money with someone I don’t even like—I’ve really hit rock bottom. What a mess, zunda mochi.
I can’t get motivated, and my flight is at 2:00 p.m., but I still haven’t packed. I have to leave home in 30 minutes.
If there were at least unlimited shopping at the Okinawa duty-free shops, I’d have some motivation.
Our schedule is packed with weird activities in the ocean, petting some strange cows, eating oddly colored fish at a weird izakaya, and things like that.
How can I act like I’m genuinely having fun? I’m desperate. I don’t think I’ll be able to laugh from the heart.
This is my first trip with this papa, and jumping straight into four days and three nights is way too much. But he’s a generous (well-paying) papa who gives me a monthly allowance of 800,000 yen, so I can’t turn him down.
For those of you who have traveled with your papa, please give me advice on how to get motivated and what to keep in mind.
I won’t accept pointless comments like “If you don’t want to go, don’t,” or “Go work in the sex industry.”
I need the money.
I feel terribly depressed every day and want to die.
Well, three nights and four days is a lot to deal with—for you and your papa (a male supporter).
Still, it’s hard to feel too sorry for you when you were blinded by the ¥800,000, right? You brought this on yourself. If unlimited shopping at the duty-free shops would make you feel better, why not ask? If that’s all it takes to cheer you up, it’s a small price to pay.
Also, don’t say you want to die.
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I thought this was posted by a woman—
but aren’t you a man?
Being able to travel sounds wonderful, doesn’t it? You should enjoy the spa and all the other things Ishigaki Island has to offer.
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Monthly 80 is obviously a lie. At that level, the relationship would be much more fun and deeper. Besides, a man who can afford 80 isn’t going to fall for a lazy, money-hungry girl who reluctantly goes on trips, can’t even prepare for one, or insists on shopping.
Good work.
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If you really hate it and can’t enjoy it, quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
If you need money, and you feel like dying anyway, why not try working as if your life depended on it?
You’d be surprised—you probably won’t die.
P.S. After seeing Seattle’s answer, I just have to say: I love grilled gurukun with sea urchin. It’s such a delicious fish despite being a colorful tropical species, and the contrast of grilling it together with sea urchin is just incredible, isn’t it?
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Some people die even though they want to live.
You’ve never actually been close to death, have you?
So stop casually saying you want to die, you idiot.
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At least this person’s posts will be gone for the next four days.
If they keep posting as they are now, I guess we’ll find out whether this whole story about the trip was a lie after all.
Also, the rules say:
“If the moderators determine that a question consists primarily of expressing an opinion, the question, all answers to it, and everything else will be deleted.”
So I’m starting to feel like it would be fine to hide this, since it seems to be just expressing an opinion.
In the first place, writing things like “We don’t accept foolish questions such as these” is basically admitting that they’re expressing an opinion rather than asking a question.
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I couldn’t help laughing at the zunda mochi.
An 800,000-yen monthly arrangement sounds nice—I’d love to be the one going.
I’ve taken that kind of trip about 100 times, to the point where I got tired of it. The women invite me repeatedly, so I don’t think I’m putting any stress on them.
The brightly colored gurukun is delicious.
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There’s no way a papa (a male supporter) paying only 80,000 yen a month would motivate you.
Instead, find a man who doesn’t give you an allowance and use him to blow off steam.
Let out all your everyday frustrations and relieve your stress.
The allowance is basically compensation for the stress, so it can’t be helped. You just have to pretend to be asleep the whole time. Apparently, she makes sure they say, “She sleeps a lot—she’s asleep except when she’s eating.”
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Since I don’t do travel or overnight stays, I’m not really sure how to get motivated for that… But I doubt any of the female members answering this are meeting papas they dislike, and I think most would simply turn them down if they weren’t interested.
If you’re an exceptionally beautiful, cool-type woman who doesn’t smile much, and a papa likes you for that and offers you a monthly arrangement, then maybe you can just stay that way. Though I imagine that would only work if you were extremely beautiful—basically celebrity-level… Everyone has different preferences, after all.
You get to enjoy delicious food, stay at a nice hotel, and have experiences you normally wouldn’t on a special trip. And on top of that, you’re not the one paying—you even receive an allowance. You just have to go feeling grateful for the opportunity.
If you enjoy yourself, they might even buy you something at the duty-free shop. Hang in there!
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