Is it common for someone to list specific reasons like repaying student loans or covering study-abroad costs when signing up, but actually just want extra money for beauty treatments and clothes? Almost every girl I’ve dated so far has been like that.
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I don’t think being honest at the registration stage and saying it’s for clothes or beauty expenses would reduce the number of offers, but is that actually not the case?
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Scholarships have changed quite a bit from when we old guys were young.
You can now get up to ¥120,000 a month, plus additional support for things like admission fees. Over four years, it adds up to a fairly substantial amount.
And the biggest issue is that repayment starts immediately after graduation—when your salary is still low.
So I imagine things are pretty tough in many ways.
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If it’s just the kind of tuition you’d pay at an average private liberal-arts university, a popular girl could pay off her student loans in a few months.
Sure, she may not have money left for beauty treatments or clothes because she’s putting it toward that instead—but so what?
You’re an adult. You should understand the difference between what people really mean and what they say on the surface.
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If, during the interview, she’s suddenly asked, “What made you sign up?” wouldn’t most people with student loans answer that they want to repay them?
And since that isn’t a lie, her thinking may simply have changed afterward. For example, if she uses the allowance from a male supporter to pay back her loans, that could free up money from her regular living expenses. So even if she uses that money for beauty treatments or clothes, it still seems fair to say that the allowance is ultimately being used to repay her loans.
And if she receives a generous allowance, it’s only natural that she’d want to spend some of it on beauty or clothes.
Why are you so hung up on such minor details? If you can’t accept the very basic fact that money given as an allowance is hers to use freely, it makes you seem like the kind of person who fixates on other little things too—and probably wouldn’t get along well with women.
Once you give someone something, it belongs to them.
I think you need to understand that basic principle better.
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What?! Does paying off student loans mean I’m not allowed to go to the hair salon?
Besides, I need to look my best when meeting someone through Universe Club.
If my clothes are covered in pills, I have to replace them—and you wouldn’t want to walk around with a girl whose hair is dry and damaged, would you?
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