Is it cringey for me to wear matching outfits with a girl nearly 25 years younger at my age?
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So far, we’ve mostly had matching items that weren’t very noticeable, like phone cases, scarves, and underwear. But she asked me to get matching gelato pique loungewear. Since it’s practically like wearing a costume, I told her it would be way too cringey for someone my age and suggested I just give her a set as a present. But she said she didn’t want it unless we got matching ones, because she wanted us to wear them to a ganbanyoku spa, go home in them, and hang out in the room together. So I ended up buying matching sets.
I’m happy when she wants us to have matching things or asks me for them. I could probably manage something like theme-park headwear or Halloween costumes, but apparently she intends for us to wear the loungewear together outside, even if only briefly. She’s really looking forward to it, so I couldn’t bring myself to refuse and bought them—but when I imagine it, it just feels way too cringey. What do you think?
If both people are comfortable with it, I don’t see a problem.
If you’re going to do it, I think it’s better to be open about it.
That said, it really depends on the details.
It’s not for me.
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Matching outfits… That’s embarrassing, isn’t it? You’re planning to wear them out after your hot stone spa visit, right?
If you’re going to wear them in public with that kind of age gap, people are bound to assume you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)…
Even parents and children wouldn’t dress alike. What are you going to do?
Though dating someone 25 years older than you is pretty cringe in itself.
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If she wants to buy matching ones and enjoy them together, I’d probably buy one too.
The fact that you’re already in an allowance-based relationship with a woman 25 years younger could be seen as questionable in itself, so the best thing is to stop worrying about it and just enjoy yourselves.
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It may be cringey, but if it’s loungewear and you’re indoors, I don’t see the harm.
I can’t do theme-park hats or Halloween costumes either. If anything, those feel even cringier to me.
To Mac:
Sorry, but I’m not into age-play. My apologies.
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You could say the distance is exactly what makes it possible. And since we’re wearing masks these days, it’s not entirely impossible for him to be mistaken for a younger guy—or even a regular boyfriend…
Once you get into character, you can enjoy it.
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