Is your relationship type A?
If so, I don’t think things will progress beyond having tea.
And if you’re type B but he still only takes you out for tea after meeting several times, you might start wondering—and feeling a little uneasy—about whether this man sees a future with you.
The most enjoyable dates I’ve had were playing golf, visiting Kyoto, and touring modern architecture.
Before deciding what to do on the date,
why not use LINE and other messages to build a closer relationship while you can’t meet in person?
If the woman takes the initiative, I think most men would be happy to exchange lots of LINE messages. If you stay connected enough that it feels like you’ve already spent a lot of time together, then since this is a club arrangement, if you can only meet for a short time, I think it’s best for the man to go to a hotel and for the woman to receive an adult allowance.
From the man’s perspective, he may feel, “Since she needs the allowance, I guess we have to go to a hotel.” And if he asks the woman, she’ll naturally answer, “A hotel—I wanted to see you, and it helps me relax.”
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If you do go on a date, I think it’ll be more exciting and enjoyable if you do something the questioner already enjoys doing alone or with her female friends.
For example:
Solo karaoke, going to see movies, bar or izakaya hopping, massages or beauty treatments, gaming, animal cafés, strawberry buffets, table tennis, scenic night-view spots, reading, and so on. If you do something you already enjoy together, you’ll be smiling the whole time, and the man will have a great time too.
That said, he’d probably be satisfied simply spending time together, even if it’s just having tea or going for a drive…
Driving, relaxation salons, and hitting balls at a golf driving range (or playing simulation golf) are a few ideas.
They all offer a certain degree of privacy, which makes it easier to talk, so I personally recommend them. I went golfing a few times because the girl I’m seeing said she wanted to try it.
I imagine the questioner’s papa (a male supporter) may also simply enjoy being able to talk with her over tea. It probably depends on the person, but I like it when the other person suggests things, so hopefully the questioner’s papa feels the same way.
