I’m starting to think my wife may suspect something, so I’m considering retiring from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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I’m currently seeing one woman once a month—we’ve been on seven dates in total—and we’re fairly close. Do you think I should meet her in person and properly tell her it’s over?
Would it be wrong to end things over LINE, or should I avoid simply letting the relationship fade out naturally?
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Personally, I wouldn’t want to leave on bad terms.
Whatever the circumstances, I’d make sure to tell the other person properly.
Depending on the situation, I might tell them in person, or I might send them a message on LINE.
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“I think saying, ‘His wife found out,’ is fine. In fact, I think gradually seeing each other less and letting things naturally fade out is the least painful way to end things.”
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I think it’s best to simply tell him the first one or two lines as they are.
The method depends on how close your relationship is. If you already have plans to meet again, you can tell him then. If you’re parting ways without meeting again, I think LINE is fine.
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If it’s only once a month, there’s really no need to formally say goodbye…
If you’re someone important to them,
they might send you a photo of their child after getting married ten years later, come to see you and thank you twenty years later, or visit you in the hospital thirty years later.
Things like that do happen.
I think it’s perfectly fine for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to be the kind of relationship where you stay connected that way.
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I’m the type who will keep things going unless the woman says she wants to end them.
That said, if you’re ending things for your own reasons, I think any method or format is fine. Just try to part on good terms, so both of you can look back and feel that dating each other was worthwhile, enjoyable, and mutually beneficial.
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If it’s only one person, I think it’s better to tell them properly rather than just let things fade out. If you have a lot of them, though, it would never end.
Since a monthly arrangement is a fairly superficial relationship, a LINE message might be enough.
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