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Apr 20, 2022 16:07
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Perfectly verifying someone’s occupation is probably impossible. Among the female members, there’s a real mix of gems and duds. Think of it as treasure hunting and enjoy the process.
If you encounter a person to avoid, there’s not much you can do. Just make another offer and enjoy looking for a wonderful woman who’s a good match for you.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It seems like you’re making some assumptions in your post too—isn’t that the case?
She may work at a beauty salon while also doing sex work on the side, for all we know.
In my experience, women from Universe Club tend to lie relatively less.
Other
I’m back〜♪
They didn’t ask me about it during my interview either. I just said, “I’m a caregiver,” and that was it＼(^^)／
For example, even if you lied and said you were a nursery teacher, I feel like it would eventually come out, so I don’t think you can make up some outrageous lie…
Does everyone report something that’s not exactly true, but not too far off either?
If so, maybe I was a little too honest.
So girls working in the adult entertainment industry usually write “esthetician,” huh〜 This is the first I’ve heard of that!
Other
If you demand that level of strictness, your only option is to use a matchmaking service that requires an official notarized document. The very fact that there’s room for ambiguity is what allows people to date freely while keeping things private.
That said, I understand not wanting to be lied to. But I think you’ll have to learn to see through people yourself.
Among women, there are two types: those who are willing to share their personal information with a man they trust, and those who absolutely refuse to share it with a papa-katsu partner, no matter how close they become.
It’s simply a matter of personality, so neither type is inherently better or worse. I think the former type is a better match for you. Until you meet someone like that, you’ll just have to keep playing what’s essentially a lottery.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
At a dating club, it’s only natural to want to lie. At the very least, you probably don’t want people knowing too much of the truth.
Especially if you have a respectable profession—men and women alike. If you have a high-profile job, you’d definitely keep it to yourself.
Also, I don’t think men were asked about their occupation (or probably their income, either).
You only need to tell the truth to the person you’re actually dating.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You can’t exactly call their workplace to verify their employment, so how are you supposed to check?
I think you should make that request to the branch directly.